Yeag
like, dating preferences sure, but I can never help the brainbug that tells me this attitude always comes from transphobia, probably internalised. Idk I don't trust it.
Power to all the trans people who have cool cis partners, but couldn't be me. I wouldn't 100% preclude the possibility, but I need to be able to look at my partner and say "Gender!" and have them understand, I guess. Talk through my own goofy gender stuff at length, with someone I'm certain has thought it through too. T4T life honestly 
In general Idk if you can trust people with "dating preferences" that single out identities or marginalised groups the way anti-t4t dorks, or their close cousins anti-trans cis people do?
