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Sex is used as a tool of humiliation against women WhY dOn'T WoMeN WaNt To hAvE SeX AnYmOrE?!? [CW: talking about sexual violence] (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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This might be a hot take, but people don't seem to realise that like... how do I explain this...

well let me put it this way;

In modern society, think about how sex is described for women. Women don't fuck, they get fucked. Think about how porn describes women being fucked. They get dominated, they get destroyed.

Think about how much porn is about rape, choking and other violence against women.

this type of talk dominates how cis dudes talk about sex with women, don't pretend it doesn't.

There is a reason that our language considers shit like "Get fucked" "Fuck you" and "I'm going to fuck you up" as insults. To fuck someone is to be the victor, to be fucked is to be humiliated, to be destroyed and dehumanised.

I mean, thankfully women are slowly taking back sex as something good and fun and empowering. But that history of sex as violent still lingers.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ive spent too much time around men when they think theres no women around, or almost worse, when they think theres only one woman. The way they talk about sex is revolting most of the time.

Re: porn, its gross how much erotic lit is filled with racist, sexist bullshit, i thought it would be a good escape, the best thing is to write your own ig.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago

Yeah I said something similar in a post above. Honestly, there's been a couple dudes I wanted to deck over the shit they've said about some of my friends. It's like... They're people too my guy, they're not your little pleasure fuck boxes.