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submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

The fuck? Do I want to date or not? What is wrong with me?

Shit is dangerous to do, I've had guys get very pissed at me for this behaviour.

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

What you’re feeling is totally normal. Dating is stressful and scary and your emotions can feel all over the place at times. If you do want to continue dating I think I might be helpful to set expectations and be open about your feelings with the people you see. Tell them up front that flirting can be stressful or scary for you and that sometimes you’ll need a little space to feel safe again. Some people might not be into that but others might be okay with it especially if you tell them upfront.

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