[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Certainly not in the sense that "we take away your children and raise them separated from you" but more in the sense of "it takes a village to raise a child". This can mean anything from extended family to patchwork to an active and engaged neighborhood to queer constellations of open relationship or poly or what ever. There is a quote from Thatcher "There is no such thing as society: there are individual men and women, and there are families."

Nuclear families, more than other forms of family and relating to each other, are isolating and making the people dependent on each other, most often making women financially dependent on men and men emotionally dependent on women. Abolishing the nuclear family doesn't mean that you can't live in a healthy monogamous relationship with a good connection to your kids. It means that you don't have to but can leave a toxic relationship and that your kids have other caregivers to complain about you and, if need, can leave. Or to live in other ways together that don't fit the model at all. To get back to Thatcher, it's not about taking away the little connection the individuals have but about strengthening the society, she denied exists.

I hope that helped. Sometimes I'm too much in my bubble to realize that implications aren't obvious. I specified "nuclear family" but I see that that's not enough. Thanks for pointing it out. Family Abolition is an interesting topic you can look deeper into if that interests you.

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago

Vitamin D is hydrophobic meaning you can't just excrete it in the urine

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 4 days ago

Short term vs long term gratification

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 95 points 4 days ago

First they came for the millionaires and distributed their wealth equally and I said nothing because I wasn't a millionaire.
Then they came for the abled bodies and made public spaces as inclusive as possible and I said nothing because I didn't notice.
Then they came for cis men and abolished the nuclear family and I said nothing because I'm not married so I didn't care.
And when they smashed white supremacy, there was no one left to defend me.

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 days ago

Because of nationalism and colonialism. They might use religious rhetoric where it suits them and there are religious people in government, I don't deny that, but over all it's a ethnic supremecist ideology and religion is only one identity marker, not the motivator.

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 days ago

Or rather nationalists. It's not that the IDF is a religious organization or something

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 5 days ago

Plot twist: even after signing in, the cat didn't answer any question

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 5 days ago

For those who don't have that luxury: Please give me your data so others can't steal it. I'll put it were it's safe

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 5 days ago

Great version of the Turing Test

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 6 days ago

The experimental math department's budget is under scrutiny for how much they've been spending on trains leaving Chicago at 9:00pm traveling at 45 mph.

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 6 days ago

So it's suffering on both sides. I refuse to quantify suffering. All suffering is bad /s

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 6 days ago

Shutout to the Vatican and all the other red countries! I sadly live in a green one

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Just a timeless quote (i.imgflip.com)

Alt Text[Star Wars Yoda in the background]

I have never killed anyone, but I have read some obituary notices with great satisfaction.

Clarence Darrow (image unrelated)

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One Up Puzzle (www.oneuppuzzle.com)

You will like One Up Puzzle if you like sudoku. Instead of having rows and collums of the same size, they are separeted by walls into sequences. Each sequence of length N has the numbers 1 to N in it. This will be much clearer when you read the help page. Have fun!

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submitted 7 months ago by lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/dach@feddit.org

„Geschichte ist machbar – System Change auch“, unter diesem Motto steht das diesjährige Camp der klimapolitischen Graswurzelbewegung "Ende Gelände".

Ihr braucht keine Berührungsängste haben, kommt einfach vorbei, auch nur einen Teil der Zeit, macht beim Programm mit, redet mit den Leuten, die sind immer sehr offen und herzlich. Ihr braucht kein Vorwissen und keine Anmeldung, nur ein Zelt, wenn ihr übernachten wollt. Das Essen ist auf Spendenbasis und immer sehr gut.

Bis dann!

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This is more a rant than a recommendation. It's a ripoff of NYT which is fine but it's very buggy.

The words aren't unambiguous and I can't guess the same word twice. Meaning for example I guessed a word that ends in "A" but took the wrong "A" so I can't choose the combination with the right "A" anymore. This is true for at least 4 of the 7 words today! I had to use two devices and private windows to circumvent this problem.

Also I found 6 out of 7 and it's impossible to find a spangram which exists according to the rules and I don't get hints anymore. Some unused words are just isolated.

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Mechanic Crocodile (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

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