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What Resources Are Good For Learning About Philosophy? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Just guess the answer and you'll do better than most, I'm such a hater

Preaching to the choir here, but Copmala is going to be a disaster for the left. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

This, this is my new fucking slogan

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Jesus fucking christ you can't look more human than an actual god damn mother fucking muppet elected leader of the worst place on this godforsaken planet TERF islands very own failson WHO CANT EVEN GET THROUGH AN ELECTION IN PUBLIC WITHOUT SNOGGING HIS MOTHERFUCKING WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PRESS OH L)OOK AT THE BELOVED ELITE CHILDREN OF THE WORLD WAR II WINNERS CHURCHILL IS TURNING IN HIS GRAVE AND I HATE THAT PIECE OF SHIT HOW DO THINGS ONLY GET WORSE LIFE IS A RATCHET A RATCHET THAT ONLY TURNS RIGHT UNTIL THE REVANCHIST MONSTROUS MUPPET CHILDREN OF THE ORIGINAL GENOCIDAIRES RISE UP TO EAT THE SHIT LEGACIES OF THEIR ANCESTORS AND WERE JUST SUPPOSED TO WATCH THIS LIKE ITS NORMAL EAT SHIT AND DIE

Trump uses TicTacs to demonstrate inflation. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

My president rage-cry

Raygun meant to do that in c/[email protected]
Ben-Gvir storms Al-Aqsa Mosque with hundreds of settlers in c/[email protected]
Leaked MRI image of the worm in RFK's brain in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago

is spongebob the most memeable art ever made?

LinkedIn has the best posters in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 43 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I want to connect with you, emotionally :)

kombucha-disgust

I may have found something worse than the calves cramping post (CW for intense liberal cringe) in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This kind of thing is what has led me to the conclusion that one of the most important aspects of political consciousness is the realization that politicians aren't people. They literally need to be dehumanized as a class in order for anything productive to happen. Functionally, they are not people to us, they are obstacles or vehicles. Without knowing this in your bones you will be Charlie Brown, they will be Lucy, and a football you never shall kick.

The U.S. Has Dozens of Secret Bases Across the Middle East. They Keep Getting Attacked. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

NOT SO SECRET HUH IDIOTS

He misses Biden so badly lol in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Nooo he lost his fast ball. His old self could have played this hand better

Google has illegal monopoly over internet search, US judge rules in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

See, this is why the law is fundamentally useless and lawyers need to be [redacted]

I figured this shit out without even thinking about it, literally, you could have asked me this 20 years ago and I'd just be like yea

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How do you navigate non-reciprocal relationships? (hexbear.net)
 

So I've been in a relationship for a while where it feels like I am much better at navigating my partner's feelings and supporting them in hard times than they are for me. I'll give a recent example of what I mean, and here I should put a content warning for a deceased pet.

My partner's last childhood dog recently passed away, she was getting pretty old and was in failing health for a bit. When she died it wasn't a terrible shock but it was very sad. My partner got some remembrances from the cremation and upon receiving them was very upset. They didn't want to just hide the remembrances away somewhere because it felt disrespectful but also couldn't deal with it at that time. So I stepped in, said, OK, I'll take them, they're going to be kept out in the open, not hidden, but I will hold them for you until you're ready to reach a more permanent solution. Pretty good response if you ask me.

Now flip the script, say I'm the one in need. My partner doesn't have anything other than cliches or proposed solutions to my problems that clearly aren't well thought out and are effectively useless. I feel very unsupported emotionally a lot of the time.

But it isn't just this relationship. I feel this throughout my life. I've wondered at times if this is a performed gender roles sort of thing. I'm a man and nobody has said to me directly "you're a man just don't have problems lmao" but it does at times feel like we are dancing around that implication. I don't know. Just curious if other people have experienced this because I'm sick of needing to be the mature party in my relationships. If I cut off everyone that made me feel this way I'd be alone.

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