[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I always feel hesitant posting here since I'm not a native Hexbearian, but as a woman I might offer some perspective.

I have been in the same position as you. I go to a school with a bunch of hot guys, I don't speak to them, I see them for 2 seconds in the hallways and later they become part of my night fantasies. For days, weeks. Sometimes it's romantic, too.

Would some of them be horrified to find out what's going on in my head? Probably. Are my thoughts wrong, immoral or otherwise destructive? No. My thoughts make me feel happy, it's my happy place with a handful of hotties, I can escape to it when I want and who knows, maybe I'll pursue one of these males irl sometime.

My point is, if you can at all relate to what I just wrote, then you are not wrong nor at fault. I appreciate that you are being aware as a man of the implications of thinking about this woman so much, but attraction and feeling smitten is natural no matter the sex and societal structures.

Like somebody else said, if you decide to shoot your shot and she rejects you, and you respectfully accept that, you are not a creep. What matters the most is how you handle the possibility of being turned down.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

I also did use a VPN on both mobile and computer. Does that change anything?

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that's a very colourful description

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Irrelevant: are you guys watching the Olympics. I've been stuck on artistic gymnastics and judo. I need me a man who is pliant

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Looking at women warrants... death?

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Y'all know of any other FOSS clients for Spotify other than Spotube? It's rather slow for me the times I've used it, so here I am asking for alternatives. Would be using it on my Android phone. Cheers!

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Let's bring waltzing women back to the streets

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Bulldogs existed in 1908?

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Before long people will start to notice, and you'll be asked to lift and carry heavy crap

I hope so! Nothing would be more validating honestly. Sometimes when I go grocery shopping with my parents they'll ask me "is the grocery bag too heavy? You want help?", like, I'm the one practising with 12kg in my hands haha. I get why they ask though, they mean well.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Thanks for letting me know! (:

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

It's actually nothing but beginner paranoia. Will it work properly even on a custom ROM, is the main question spinning in my head.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

not doubting this experiment but isn’t basing the validity of the myth on one instance a bit misleading

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This comment inspired me to try out Bonjourr. Absolutely love it so far. Keep the great work up!

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Thought the “OK” in the title referred to the rating of the place… lol.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

That’s what everybody says… lol.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

This is exactly what my father says whenever I tell him I don’t feel comfortable having a bunch of corporate-owned platforms that eat my data away.

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