I don't think this can be answered on here. There's too much propaganda and psyops, and quite simply, I doubt anyone on here is from Syria!
I do not like authoritarianism, so that's a no from me dawg, but if Assad's rule is that big a threat to the Empire of America then maybe? But that's about as deep an analysis as any non-expert forum (i.e. lemmy) can give you imo.
EDIT: some research - like the ideology of the coup, dislike hereditary regimes. It's really not an easy one to balance out imo
You don't have to give either money and there is the option to give both money.