Squirrel

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[–] Squirrel 4 points 1 year ago

Easier to find the perfect station for you?

[–] Squirrel 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Most generations don't need to deal with an impending threat to the whole planet. Nuclear apocalypse, sure, but at least there was no pretending that it wasn't a problem.

This is ignoring all of the other ways in which we're fucked.

[–] Squirrel 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No, I'm really not.

My first had major medical issues (for her first 3-4 years) that necessitated close supervision after a 3-month stay in the NICU. She had PT, OT, speech therapy, and feeding therapy every week, appointments with cardiology and pulmonology, gastroenterology, regular post-operation and post-NICU visits, and the normal doctor appointments.

She took a lot of work, and severely limited our options for going out, due to a feeding schedule (while trying to limit projectile vomiting -- and I do mean vomiting, hard and loudly, not just "spitting up" -- to 2 times a day, when possible) that allowed practically nothing. Still, we managed to have downtime, where we could just relax and unwind. It's how we stayed sane.

Given the circumstances, a second child really changed very little, in terms of work required. We still found time for ourselves.

Admittedly, it would have been impossible (or extremely cost-ineffective) for me to have a job at that point, but my daughter was a full-time job and then some. I realize that this probably negates everything I've said to most in this thread, but still.

[–] Squirrel 1 points 1 year ago
[–] Squirrel 5 points 1 year ago

That was the goal all along.

[–] Squirrel 19 points 1 year ago

It was written in her voice.

[–] Squirrel 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Implying that parents don't have any free time? I mean, my time isn't "my own", but my wife and I sure as hell have free time.

Personally, I would go insane without free time -- likely literally. I would be an anxiety-ridden mess with a hair trigger. If my chores won't allow any free time, the chores don't get finished. They'll still be there tomorrow.

Edit: We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old.

[–] Squirrel 21 points 1 year ago

I love it when people expect loyalty's benefits without paying loyalty's price.

[–] Squirrel 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I recently listened to some songs I liked as a teenager, but I actually paid attention to the lyrics. Holy shit, some of those songs were dark.

[–] Squirrel 3 points 1 year ago

Oh yeah, WoW hands down. The sense of wonder as I explored the world the first time was incomparable to any other game.

[–] Squirrel 38 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Trump isn't exactly the strongest, most charismatic person, either. His speeches are rambling messes, and he has notoriously thin skin.

I'm honestly not sure how that compares to DeSantis, but still.

[–] Squirrel 1 points 1 year ago

It looks like it's on a number of streaming services, so there's really no need.

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