Yeah stops on Monday. RIP. I personally signed up for lemmy.zip as it has pretty similar policies to .ee

I can sympathize, I was a nightmare for my parents growing up not being able to sleep. Though I usually was caught reading or playing video games instead. ADHD can be very hard to deal with and I wish you the best of luck

.........27 year old mother with a 12 year old kid equals 15

I'll chime in myself here. Am an atheist, have dated hard core Christian women, Wiccans, and atheists. I've found that religion didn't actively impact the relationship until it spilled over into daily life that my partner required I take part in. I actually really enjoyed religious history conversations with my more moderate partners. It started to break down when it was "shut up no debate this is how it is" and those are the relationships that ended badly.

Only speaking from personal experience obviously. Ass and vagina - yes, vastly different. Vagina is like a really wet warm tunnel with pretty even pressure throughout. Ass has a really tight opening and then less so further in. As for kegels, oh boy yes can you feel the pressure differences. Like squeezing a fist.

If media can turn someone gay than rationally the inverse should be true as well so why are there still gay people when the media is 99% non gay stuff?

I 100% understand your wife. I'm not that bad, but it's a consequence of being told you have to be perfect or you failed growing up, at least for me. If something doesn't go right the first time I still get that mini freeze "error encountered on line 1 please reboot" that my parents unintentionally instilled in me.

It's a store in the US that sells most stuff for $1, for context. Or $1.25 now apparently

You still spent less than buying two AAA at release

Shittiness is not gendered. You can be a shitty man and you can be a shitty woman but the only person of any persuasion being shit here is you.

Everyone likes their own things in people.

I know, we're both predisposed to alcoholism, we've both had family die to it. I've struggled with it a little bit myself in my younger years. I know that if she chooses alcohol over us then there's nothing I can do about it. And honestly it's right at that point now. I love her and I always want to be there for her, but if she pushes me away I...I mean I know I deserve better and I know I can't live like that but I'm just going to do my damndest for as long as I can. She'd do the same for me.