I actually have started therapy. But it's only once a week. So that doesn't really help the time aspect. That's more of a long game

It's a rhetorical question when presented like that

For a minute I thought this was an ecco the dolphin deep cut

This isn't unpopular, it's just offensive. Who are you tell someone who they're attracted to?

What the fuck are you talking about

So you want to see the pet I care for when it makes you happier

Yes exactly.

bothered to bear the slightest hit to your mood when sharing my grief makes me happier?

How incredibly selfish.

Wtf. No one owes you their sadness, and it's beyond selfish to expect others to be upset just because you are. You adopted the pet. It's your responsibility, no one else's.

Florida

I run arch and have VERY few problems. I have way more problems on my work ubuntu computer because I'm forced to add PPAs to get even remotely modern things like git versions that support this https://git-scm.com/docs/git-config/#Documentation/git-config.txt-pushdefault

I think it's totally inappropriate to be using a non-rolling release OS as a desktop. You're way more likely to run into issues when you massively update your system every 6 months - 3 years, rather than keeping things up to date constantly. It's not like anyone tests the upgrade process on a desktop. They just do it one day. Whereas it makes sense on a server to be more cautious about updates, where there's presumably staging environments, etc.

It's competitive as fuck to join the circus now You may as well go to college

How much money are you willing to spend? It's likely 2 orders of magnitude lower than what it will cost