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[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago

Super easy if there is a club nearby. Most will have loaner equipment while you get started. You'll eventually want your own mask ($75) and glove ($cheap, I used a gardening glove) at least, and then probably your own jacket and sword (like $50 each).

I took it as a class in college, and outside of club tournaments everything was super friendly and casual and mixed-gender (cool and good for trans people). And yeah, really fun.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I want to get into HEMA cause I did fencing in college and still have most of my gear and smallsword and rapier look fun, but I just know I would want to buy a whole new outfit with those brightly colored poofy pants and sleeves and that gets expensive fast.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I've had some that were harder to dissolve than others (while DIYing, so maybe they just weren't meant for hrt), but I mushed them up with my tongue a bit and it worked out.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Pretty substantial escalation after their previous pie heists.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

WWP are good comrades with good principles, but the organization isn't quite there imo. I tried joining as a candidate, found out that their candidate classes were only on a day I was unavailable, and they were like "okay, that's no problem!" Which seems like pretty poor standards to me. Also they kept asking me if I could be a delegate on international trips, on very short notice, despite being a new candidate and not having a passport.

PSL seems to have standards for their members and are trying to form organizational infrastructure in the form Liberation Centers. Definitely strike me as a more serious party.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Where you go to see what the stupid local Discourse is.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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Update on my transphobic supervisor: he spent all morning talking about how some billionaires are good people who earned their money through noble ventures, like investment banking. He tells me he is a stock broker on the side and offers to give me some tips. madeline-deadpan

Ok but for real why is this guy working in a homeless shelter???

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Honestly, I was in a new city and needed a job, and the biggest shelter agency in town was hiring people for night shifts. Turned out I really liked the job, even with all the wild and sometimes traumatic shit that happens periodically. The social benefits are pretty cool ngl - everyone thinks you're some kinda saint when like 90% of what you do is just clean and give out coffee and stuff. After a few years of that I was like "huh, guess I'm a shelter worker now."

I also had some lived experience and come from a family of social workers, but I never thought I'd be a shelter person until I started doing it. Didn't go to school for it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I worked like 6 or 7 very different jobs before I got into homeless services. I've had tons of different jobs in the field at all levels from temp overnights to running entire shelter programs, but I kinda count them as the same job even if I change positions or agencies every year or so. If I counted all the promotions and agency hops it would be a lot a lot.

I'm mid-30s and started shelter work 7 years ago. I was also an unemployed disaster through most of my early 20s, so those pre-shelter jobs went by pretty fast too I guess.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 5 days ago

If you ask reddit, he's actually there fighting because Russia is so desperately low on manpower after waves of zerg rushes.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Finally beat Subnautica. Looking for a game that scratches the same exploration itch. Maybe with better/more base building? That was fun. Not underwater this time though. I just wanna explore a really interesting environment, and then build a really sweet house in it.

 

Are you a leftist who is sick of working long hours just so that your boss can buy a second house?

Do you struggle finding employment because you don't have a degree (classist bullshit), or have a degree in a field you didn't end up liking?

Do you have any personal experience with homelessness, drug addiction, mental illness, or just struggling to fit in with capitalist society? This is like, the one job where that helps a lot.

Do you have an understanding of the structural issues that cause people to become unemployed or homeless (it's capitalism. capitalism is the answer)? Live in a medium-to-large city where social services exist in parallel with the for-profit job market?

Why not try a new career working in Homeless Services?


I've been a shelter worker for most of the last decade, and lemme tell you, it's pretty great. I've done everything from working on-call night shifts, to managing entire shelters hosting 100+ people. I didn't go to school for this, and I had no social work experience prior. I was just some trans girl in her 20s with a little bit of lived experience (living in my car) who answered a craigslist ad, but I stuck with the work cause it's like, hella rewarding and stuff.

Most of the job is just maintaining a safe environment for the guests - cleaning the facility, preparing meals if your shelter does its own food, signing people up for services (showers, laundry, beds, depending on program), with a little bit of case management on the side - and they'll teach you that part. Depending on the shelter, you might be busy buzzing around chatting with people (like 90% just being friendly, not even "work talk"), or you might just be chilling, ready to pop up if anything exciting happens. If you work night shift, you might even get to spend the night on your phone while everyone is asleep (depends heavily on the shelter).

There are some substantial downsides, not gonna sugar coat it.

  • It can be stressful dealing with people going through what is likely the most difficult period of their life. They aren't normally assholes, life is making them that way.

  • Sometimes said stressed-out people will have emotional outbursts, that can be very disruptive and sometimes scary or even dangerous. You learn a lot about deescalating angry people (which is actually a really good skill for a leftist to have, if you do any protesting!).

  • Sometimes people fucking die, and you'll be the first responder. You will get good at using narcan and doing CPR. I have a graveyard in my head and have known so many people who died either in shelter, or on the streets some time after I met them through work. I've had people die while I was trying to save them. Sometimes you do EMT stuff. It does weigh on you a bit.

But the rewards are so much more!

  • When you tell people what you do, they'll think very highly of you. Our stereotypes are sick as hell and people will talk about how caring and wonderful you are. Try it out on dating apps!

  • It's peaceful at work today so I spent all day posting. I expect tomorrow to also be mostly chill, so I will be posting more.

  • I'm in good with a lot of houseless people in my city, and this has been helpful more than once. It's cool having people.

  • Actually doesn't pay too bad. I make about 50k in a large coastal city, enough to pay rent and have a modest living. With my shelter worker bf making around the same, we get by alright in this expensive city.

Any other shelter workers here? Anyone in homeless services in general? What got you into this work?

Also, does anyone have any questions about what the job is like or how to get into it?

 

Not writing a big essay about things means you can't write cringe liberalism.

I just wanted to be late to the party after the CPUSA and PSL statements got posted.

 

So as we all know, it is impossible for man to soar through the heavens as a bird does. Any attempt will lead one to be struck down from the skies for their hubris. It can't be done, Boeing is proof of this. So what if I wanted to do the next best thing?

I've heard the words "Learn to hack, learn to drone" echoed around these parts a few times. I've tried learning programming again and again, but it seems I'm just not that Type of trans woman. Instead I got really into CAD and 3d printing and remote control vehicles, so the "learn to drone" part really appeals to me. Problem is, I don't know where to start. Do I just buy a $300 DJI drone before they get banned? Do I learn how simulators work and practice a bunch first? Do fpv and bigger camera drones share a skillset? How do I not fuck up when I'm living in a big city? If I already have a transmitter, is that a cost I can save or do drones generally come with their own?

I'm also interested in reading about the ways people use drones for revolutionary purposes, for lack of a better term. I know local orgs have a need for good protest footage, but flying a drone downtown is probably super duper illegal and the new Remote ID rules would make me copbait if I were to say, sit in the bed of a leading truck and follow a march from above. Drones are super cool, but less so if a cop just shoots it down with his scifi radio gun and then tracks me down and arrests me.

By the way, has anyone ever built a drone? I already have a 3d printer and a transmitter I use for robot combat. And I'm pretty familiar with drone parts - motors made to spin propellers can also spin blades, and tiny receivers and batteries made for weight-limited flying vehicles are great for weight-limited fighting vehicles. I just don't understand flight controllers or cameras or propellers or how to pick parts or anything. It would also (with dubious legality) avoid the Remote ID issue and my homebrew drones wouldn't be banned for being Chinese spies.

So hey sickos, how do I learn to drone?

 

still posting in dunk tank cause it's reddit-logo but I was really surprised to see this thread get out of zionist control and have people actually talking about israeli war crimes. maybe this refugee camp bombing is a turning point???

 

I most often play Pathfinder, with a mostly-canon Golarion setting. I almost always play a woman - sometimes I make her trans, and sometimes I don't. Her trans status is usually based on the rest of their characteristics, and whether I feel it "makes sense" for my character to realize she's trans.

When I played a brash, independent sorceror, or a young noblewoman with resources and connections and a supportive family, it made sense to make my characters trans because they were in a position to figure that out and had the ability to do something about it. In my current Pathfinder game, my character was raised in a militaristic cult that isn't a good environment for deep introspection, so I made her cis.

When I made my character for Baldur's Gate 3, she was a self-insert alongside my BF's self-insert, so she was transfemme and it was an easy decision. I'll generally prefer to make trans characters, but only if I can make up a good justification to do so.

I recently spoke to a friend who primarily makes cis woman characters as part of the whole "power fantasy" that comes with roleplaying, and her experience was a little different than mine, so I thought I'd ask here. Trans Hexbears, are your RPG characters trans?

 

Like a lot of us here, I'm trying to learn Mandarin Chinese. I've been casually doing apps for a while now (Duolingo sucks, HelloChinese seems better, language exchanges are fun but scary) but I recognize some serious limitations to my methods. My reading and typing is getting better, as is my listening, but I still suck at speaking and tones are still hard to remember sometimes. This seems directly related to my learning methods - lotsa reading and listening exercises mostly, not as much talking. If I want to actually be able to speak this language, I'm going to need some more varied education I think.

My first thought was to check the local community college - we have a large Chinese population here so the classes are probably good, but the scheduling doesn't work well with my boring adult 9-5. I do well in a classroom environment though. One-on-one tutoring might not be a bad option, but I'd prefer to go through the embarrassment of learning a new language as a group, you know?

Anyone else in the same boat? What do you use to learn?

 

May I offer you a cutesy pop song in these trying times?

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