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[–] 300 points 2 years ago (6 children)

Maybe because it’s the only way many without generational wealth can afford to live.

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    [–] 201 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Honestly at this point there are only a handful of headlines that cover about 90% of news stories:
    -Young people 'choose' lifestyle choice that was forced upon them by external conditions.
    -Young people are 'killing industry' that they are not paid enough to even dream of participating in.
    -Rich person/people found guilty of or admitted to enormous crime will go unpunished.
    -Someones totally unqualified opinion on a subject that we're reporting as news because they're rich.
    -World ending, shareholders rejoice.

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    [–] 167 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    By choosing, I think we mean that it's not an affordable luxury to do otherwise

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  • [–] 138 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    "Why aren't the poors having more workers??" - the same people continually reducing the status and security of the working class

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    [–] 115 points 2 years ago (13 children)

    Choosing or forced to choose?

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  • [–] 96 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Choosing to not have children is becoming more and more accepted among younger people for a long variety of reasons, among them being climate and economy as well as "not going to ruin my body" and "well i just dont like children"

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  • [–] 50 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    You pretty much nailed the entire reason for most of my friends and myself (mid to late 20s). We can all afford kids, but it's just not something anyone desires except for one or two people in our group of 14.

    Most of us don't even dislike kids, but the thought of having our own is undesirable.

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  • [–] 35 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    I struggle to understand how people can get over how terrifying and unpleasant having children is. Kids can be okay, except when they aren't, and that's often.

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  • [–] 30 points 2 years ago (12 children)

    That is simply not true. Kids can teach you many things about yourself that you never knew you cared about. They open a part of this life you would never see otherwise. They are this thing that loves you no matter what and if you are a good parent you do not take that for granted and give it all you got.

    I didn't want any for many years for all the same reasons as many here. And it changed. And it's great, for me. But if you choose not to or have doubts, don't. It's horrible for the kid.

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    [–] 110 points 2 years ago (1 child)
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    • low wages
    • no unions
    • housing is either a lifetime's savings for down payment on mortgage or a never ending escalator of rent fees
    • states taking reproductive rights away
    • states threatening contraception
    • climate change dooming the future
    • war - war in ukraine, war in palestine, war in africa, civil war being threatened by the chud down the street

    Gee Mr Wizard, why don't millennials want babies instead of avocado toast?

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  • [–] 93 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    they arent choosing it.

    They are being forced into it because its the only fucking way to have a chance at NOT being homeless and crippled.

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    [–] 82 points 2 years ago (13 children)

    Less of a choice and more of a survival tactic. Plus, my foregone children would thank me.

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    [–] 76 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    No one should have a child unless they are willing to commit themselves to that child 100%. I have a daughter. She's the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me. And if anyone willingly took substantially less effort than I've taken to try to raise her in a safe, healthy environment and prepare her for her future as best I can- fuck you, you should have worn a fucking condom.

    No child deserves to be neglected.

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    [–] 70 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I make ~$200K a year. As a father of 5, I wish I had not had a single one. I love them, but the stress of taking care of them coupled with the future of the planet makes me regret life choices.

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  • [–] 60 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    I find it interesting that you cite the stress of raising them as a factor in your regret. Could you not tell that was going to be an issue around the time number three came around? That's not intended to be accusatory btw. I'm genuinely curious.

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    [–] 66 points 2 years ago (14 children)

    My wife finally are in a point where we can afford to have children, but we are kinda getting a bit old to have children. So we are also choosing the dual income no children life style,

    But a big part of that is our age and how long it took to get to a comfortable place financially.

    Now we want to focus on saving for a house and retirement.

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    [–] 65 points 2 years ago

    What choice do they have if kids are basically unaffordable?

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  • [–] 64 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    “When we advise clients about having children, we honestly don’t even give them the full real details and the real numbers,” said Shannon McLay, founder of The Financial Gym. “It’s one of those things if you see the math of it all, it might make you decide to not have children.”

    what a whole generation of pulling the ladder up behind you will do to a society. Party of family values doing everything they possibly can to destroy familes.

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    [–] 61 points 2 years ago (15 children)

    Because we can't afford our own lives, how are we supposed to support children? Not even taking into account for how absolutely fucked we all are. Our planet is dying, how can we bring children into this world if it's all falling apart?

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    [–] 58 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Put the value back into my income then, ye cunts.

    I make the same number as my dad used to. His was a different currency but the number was the same which makes it awfully simple to put everything into perspective.

    His house: 350 Mine: a little under half the size: 900

    I'm already down 550 in comparison.

    His insurance: 90 Mine: 160

    I'm down 620.

    His medicine cost and doctor visits: basically zero. Mine: 385 and half the medicine comes out of pocket nowadays.

    This difference is hard to put into perspectice as the 385 is once a year and medicine depends on the situation.

    Him: unemployed wife, groceries cost about 200 for a full month, owns a car and has 4 children.

    Me: wife works and has a hobby that makes money, no car because no money left. Groceries: we eat about 2/3rd of what they did and pay 200 a week. No children.

    We are down 1220 if we forget about insurance and medicine. I don't make 1220 more than he did.

    Fuck this hellhole, you stole our life and i hope there is a hell for you scumbags.

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    [–] 58 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    Gee, it's almost like it's important for the long term success of society to have systems in place that make sure it's not a burden to create new people to take over for your generation after their bodies are too old and broken to keep working and society functioning.

    Then again, the decisions have already been made by the people with the power to make them, and technology/automation are in line to replace workers. They'll be a little loud and problematic until the numbers naturally even themselves out, but we'll be left with an enlightened society of capitalist asset owners being supported by a massive technological network.

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    [–] 56 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    "choosing".

    Articles like this are not for you and me. These are written for investors.

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  • [–] 45 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    The plebs aren't breeding enough future workers for us to exploit to deliver the promised renumerations to our shareholders.

    We MUST find out the reason why! No it can't possibly be that extracting all the wealth into our dragon hoards, I mean, hedge funds is the reason why they're too broke to support children.

    It can only be a LiFeStYlE cHoICe! Like being homeless or poor.

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    [–] 54 points 2 years ago

    Friend of mine wanted kids. Can't afford it. Both her and her partner work full time, though money was too tight for them to feel comfortable. It's heartbreaking, really.

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  • [–] 51 points 2 years ago* (2 children)

    Why the fuck would I want to subject my own children to the inevitability of human suffering? I'm not going to make the same mistake my parents made.

    If the world collapses because there are no more children, I'll consider it my greatest accomplishment before ending it all on my own terms.

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    [–] 50 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    What could rasing a child cost? 10$?

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    [–] 49 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Living that DINK life and still having trouble keeping out of debt. I can't imagine having to cover for kids, too.

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    [–] 48 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    The world needs fewer people.

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    [–] 43 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Im a DINK! Just this year we bought a house, vacationed in Europe and are installing a new heat pump system. I interact with my friends kids and have nieces and nephews. I get to be the fun one and if someone poops or gets sick I can return them. It's like skipping right to the grandparent stage. I don't hate kids or look down on parents like some child free communities but I don't envy them at all. I totally get why DINKness is on the rise. Hopefully the stigma reduces as it become more common.

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    [–] 38 points 2 years ago (1 child)
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    [–] 30 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    I already have two kids. Is it too late to adopt this lifestyle?

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    [–] 30 points 2 years ago (17 children)

    Don't mind me. I'm the weirdo that legit loves being a parent.

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    [–] 30 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    I'm over here single income double kids. Opps lol

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