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[–] 66 points 2 years ago (3 children)

My wife finally are in a point where we can afford to have children, but we are kinda getting a bit old to have children. So we are also choosing the dual income no children life style,

But a big part of that is our age and how long it took to get to a comfortable place financially.

Now we want to focus on saving for a house and retirement.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)
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    I don’t know what this means.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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    perfectly ok in that range, it starts to get unsafe for the mother after 40 tho

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I don't know about this commenter, but don't forget that everyone is different.

    Hypothetically, you might be good having kids in you thirties, but one or both of them might have a condition or disability that gets worse with time.

    I know people in their early 20s with bad arthritis, and a lot of people want to be able to chase after and run around with their kids. Sometimes chronic pain/illness can remove that option.

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