Just bought a 2m section of flexible tube for a gas stove, and the sales clerk asked first for my phone number, to which I replied "I don't have one". Then she asked me for my name, to which I replied "I'll pay in cash". She then insisted it was so "the cashier will call you by name", to which I replied "I'm not giving you my name, I'll pay in cash". [Edit: she apparently got a bit upset when I refused to give info, but ended up entering "no name" according to the receipt]

Am I wrong for not wanting to give personal data for an item paid in cash, in person? No other hardware store ever asks me for my personal info.

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[–] 14 points 1 hour ago (1 child)

I’ve told people “I don’t have a phone number” on autopilot because that’s what I always say when they ask for me email address. I’m sure no one believes I don’t have an email but I KNOW they don’t believe me when I say I don’t even have a phone number. No one has ever pushed back through they’re like oh… uh, ok? Then I just get on with the transaction. It’s not like they won’t sell it to you if you don’t have an email or phone number. I’ve never felt the need to fully decline giving a name I just give them a random name if need be. I think you handled it just fine, if you don’t have to and you don’t want to, don’t! Exercise your agency!

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  • [–] 20 points 2 hours ago* (19 children)

    Local area code + 8675309. Used it since the early 00's. As an added bonus, many places have discounts set up for that number.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 hour ago (17 children)

    Why do places have discounts for that number? Guessing you're american, I have no clue what that number is.

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  • [–] 1 point 36 minutes ago

    All the major chain stores have loyalty programs. They're really for tracking and marketing purposes, but they give discounts to incentivize participation. Most people just use the fake number for the regular discount.

    But, these programs they also give rewards after a certain amount of spending. Rewards like 10c of per gallon of gasoline, or a free candy bar. With enough people using the same number for the discount, there are often a lot of rewards built up just waiting to be claimed.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago (9 children)

    Thanks. Why would that give a discount, though?

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  • [–] 6 points 1 hour ago

    Lots of places have Reward Points for handing over your phone number. I've used Jenny's number for years to get discounted gas. Usually only $0.03 but one time I got $0.40 off per gallon.. been chasing that dragon ever since, lol.

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  • [–] 2 points 48 minutes ago

    Companies want you to associate your transactions with a phone number so they have data on who is buying what. For instance if you go to Safeway it's common that the price of ice cream will be twice as expensive if you haven't registered a phone number with them. But you can give someone else's phone number that has already been registered and that will also work, or register a fake number, a number lots of people would have thought of is likely to have already been registered. At least that was how it worked last time I checked, that was a long time ago.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 hour ago (4 children)

    So, after that song rose in popularity, phone companies de-registered it entirely. Because it's a number that no-one has, my guess is that some stores/businesses use it as shorthand to put a discount under for something like employee discount or for "we messed up, here's a discount" discounts.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

    I local plumber chain uses that number. YEARS ago they used to run a spot where they recited it with the same cadence of the song, but w/o the notes.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 hour ago

    I once went into a chase bank to get a $50 bill broken into 3 tens and 1 twenty, and they would not do it unless I showed them id.

    I just left and got it broken elsewhere.

    Never provide information you do not have to.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 hour ago

    Elwood Blues, 1060 W. Addison St.

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  • [–] 2 points 21 minutes ago

    I now use 8675309 because I'm old and the people taking my "info" don't catch on or don't give a fuck.

    I also give the name "Nünya" and tell them its French

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  • [–] 3 points 1 hour ago

    Order for Nunya Bizniss, phone# 123 456 7890

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  • [–] 2 points 52 minutes ago

    You can give them a fake name, or you can dead ass stare at them until they feel awkward and continue the transaction. But there's definitely no reason they need that info.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 hours ago

    In all likelihood, her boss gripes at her for not getting name and number from every customer, and his boss gives him shit for the same thing.

    I worked at AutoZone for 8 years and our DM and up would hound us constantly about getting people's phone numbers and emails and act like their weren't people who were never going to give that information.

    The worst part was that there was no incentive to annoy people like that for the cashier other than avoiding getting bitched out by the manager.

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  • [–] 19 points 3 hours ago (1 child)

    I remember Barnes and Noble asking for my phone number to buy a paperback copy of 1984.

    I was like nah man.

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    No OP, I don't provide info needlessly either.

    I have an email alias that starts with annoying@ and the name I use with it is Jabroni Fictitious if someone is being really insistent and I want the thing without walking away.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

    We don’t need to bring ink and paper into this. I can’t imagine a scenario where I’d have to prove I bought a donut.

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