Heaven Will Be Mine has, so far, been the only piece of media giving me an accurate representation of my lived experience, in that all main characters are trans women, all are immediately recognizable (shitposting furry hacker brat, self destructive "it's only a flesh wound, i went back to piloting one week after my bottom surgery" milf stoic, stoned af instagram plant mom in full-on gender euphoria mode), all are crushing hard on each other and are destined to end up in a polycule together after they've bonded enough over their mutual trauma and all are really into giant robots.

I mean, yes, they actually pilot these robots in an interplanetary war instead of just doing some tabletop wargaming, but this very minor detail of the setting does not change the fact that nobody else has achieved these levels of realism.

It was the Sims.

Which is also why there will be no Sims 5, because Jared Kushner and the Saudis now own EA. It doesn't matter how much money it makes, it doesn't matter if it was EA's second biggest cash cow after FIFA, it's the woke game and they'll kill it for political reasons.

Fortunately Paralives looks like it's going to fill the gap.

Halo is the ultimate woke because the first game has bisexual lighting and master chef falls in love with an AI and there’s women marines

Date Everything!

Fields of Asphodel is a retelling of Persephone myth but it's written in tooth rotting fluffy "tumblr" way. It's very nice if you're feeling bad and just want to fall into some soft fluff. Also the interactive fiction r#ddit fucking hates this gayme because it's not gritty and "factually following the myth", so it even has the anti-tumblr crowd mad.

Not every game could become Woke but there is a particle of Woke in every game

Elden Ring, no I won't elaborate but if Gamers understood the lore they'd be really mad

Dragon Age inquisition is probably up there in woke vibes. Its got trans people, women with short hair, black people with influential positions, and most importantly it has a shitton of characters with that semi-fade every TV-lesbian had in the 10's.

Sure if you read the text its not all that woke, having aristocrats and stuff, but thats not really what we're looking for it seems. More like what game screams "look at me! Im #woke!!" And that one does.

Hollow Knight: Silksong, no really I mean just read the lore see

A princess kidnapped from a distant land now is in thralls of her abusive grandmother, the abused aunt of said princess helps her escape and it is the princess has determined that she will help the disabled, the queer, and the poor of this new land in overthrowing the obscene overlords trying to achieve immortality. Princess also helps everyone around her, like hunting food for the poor and disabled, looking for lost toys of children, donating money and resources to destroyed communities.

Cozy Caravan. You run around as a guild representative helping people and selling items you make and you get produce by helping people pick crops and then keep some.

Oh there is a game that I haven't gotten to play and I can't get the name right now, but you play as a Black ninja like person who steals artifacts from museums and return them to their country of origin.

Metal Gear Solid V -the Phantom Pain

The main character navigates a post op life. Supporting cast consists of a disabled man who propped up Sandinistas, a deaf woman who eschews the patriarchal shackles of clothing (she literally cannot breathe with clothes on), a group of child African soldiers who escape forced mining in Congo, and a shaman who finds cures to a virus that imposes colonization through linguistics

These are major studio games from a studio that is often criticized for wokeness, however:

Tell Me Why - first major studio game with a trans man as the main character (trans man returns to small town Alaska and has to reconnect with estranged twin sister and deal with childhood trauma)

Life is Strange: True Colours - main character is a queer musician with supernatural empathy powers. Rainbow auras help you learn to connect with and care about the people around you in a small Colorado mining town that you move to after years in foster care.

I think neofeud fits your criteria

RDR2 is pretty woke

I played Dragon Age Veilguard and it's fun asf and also pretty woke. I didn't play any of the older dragon age games so I can't speak for how true the criticisms of it not comparing are, but I can say I assume a lot of the criticisms were just tacked on to give volume to the people crying it was woke