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[–] 136 points 3 weeks ago (36 children)

Well, who raised that idiot?

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  • [–] 115 points 3 weeks ago (16 children)

    At some point you have to take responsibility for yourself. You cant just blame every failing on your parents.

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  • [–] 53 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

    Its the first step in therapy.

    Blame parents, forgive parents, realize you now control your future, realize youve controlled your actions and future the entire time, forgive yourself.

    Most people are hovering step 1 and 2, or skip over step 2

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  • [–] 19 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

    Without going through steps 1 and 2 it's impossible to get to steps 3, 4, and 5 without feeling gaslit and invalidated just like you always were growing up, which can rehash and reinforce the trauma, perpetuating the cycle.

    That's what society in general, and people who had healthy parents, don't understand. They want us all to skip to the end of the process, ignoring the fact that not everyone was so fortunate to be raised by emotionally intelligent people.

    A very basic understanding of developmental psychology is all it takes to see how significantly the influences of one's formative years can impact their social and emotional development long into adulthood.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    and in severe cases, lifelong health issues, such as autoimmnue disorders, suicidal ideation, etc. thanks mom and dad!

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  • [–] 7 points 3 weeks ago

    I just wanted to add that it's still incredibly painful after these steps, therapy ain't over then. Still worth it though. Be kind to your inner child, especially if they're still crying inside.

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  • [–] 47 points 3 weeks ago (15 children)

    My parents did a lot to model being smart with money and only one of their kids (me) picked up on it. Kids often love being the opposite of what they're taught, no matter how much it hurts them.

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  • [–] 12 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

    The thing about people who buy NFTs is that they think they are being smart with their money.

    They look at what happened with Apple, Microsoft, Google stocks way back in the day and think "huhuhu, I'm not going to be one of those idiots who misses out on an opportunity like that!"

    It's FOMO and "high risk - high reward" gambler mentality, wrapped up in the illusion of being a savvy investor.

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    [–] 50 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

    this seems like something my dad would do, deservingly to be fair. I've gotten up to some pretty stupid shit

    for example I currently have a sprained wrist from falling off my unicycle during my break at work.

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  • [–] 20 points 3 weeks ago* (4 children)

    I always tell people "you can't fall off a unicycle". I've actually fallen once and nobody was around to see.

    99.9% of the time you can easily dismount and let the cycle drop, but once in a while you can actually fall

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (3 children)

    that's very true, I'm not the best at free mounting and often bail 3 or 4 times before I actually get going. (also a 27" wheel so a bit more difficult than my old one)

    what happened that made me actually fall and not just bail is that the road was at an angle and I had my psi a bit too high so it kinda popped out from under me.
    I caught myself with my hands, small scrape on one of them and sprained the other. Also scraped my knee too. I used to have wrist braces but I lost them when I moved and haven't used it regularly enough to get new ones. I probably will now 😅

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    I saw someone yesterday with a big wheel who I was sure was about to bail. He was unicycling down a pretty steep street. He managed to make it down the street and turn the corner, but it looked like a real struggle.

    I know from riding a fixie that for streets that aren't too steep it's not hard, you just have to effectively "pedal backwards", allowing slowing the pedals down as they come up behind you. But, I don't know what a unicyclist can do on a very steep street. What I would do on a fixie doesn't work because it requires small skid-stops, which means you need a front wheel.

    What would you do on a steep hill? I assume that by the time you realize it's too steep you're already going pretty fast, so just bailing would be difficult.

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    [–] 35 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

    It's funny, when NFT's started I said it was the dumbest thing ever and everyone online jumped all over me and down voted me into oblivion.

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  • [–] 17 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

    I think digitally verifiable ownership could be cool for, like, a digital TCG or something. But you'd need an actual use case for why this 'ownership' matters, which just isn't true of the most noteworthy use of nfts.

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  • [–] 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

    I've never understood TCGs. Why not just print out the cards. Why not to use a randomizer from which one should make up a deck for one duel. Is the fun gambling and consumerism?

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    [–] 26 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

    I was thinking about NFTs yesterday and how AIs have probably scrapped them all and will happily copy all the monkeys and such.

    Think I could sell AI generated NFTs?

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  • [–] 18 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    Eh. Use an AI to make smaller AI models that have different combinations of personalities (this one acts like Elvis singing opera, this one mimics Einstein with a cowboy accent) and the create NFTs for the ownership of those personalities. Each one comes with it's own bot-created twitter account, and it posts. The holder of the NFT gets any revenue the account generates.

    Anyway, if you build this, send me a cut, I'd like to get rich from stupid people who would actually go nuts over this.

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  • [–] 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    If you were this stupid and had a billion dollars and funded this idea then you would surely become a millionaire.

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    "How's the timeshare doing, dad?"

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  • [–] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    My uncle used to go to timeshare sales pitches 2-3 times a week. Never bought a timeshare, just went for the free dinners. He was so bored with life that he didn't even mind sitting there listening to them babble. The only other thing he had to do was to call up my dad and discuss how gas prices were slightly different at different filling stations.

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    [–] 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    The amount of money spent is the deciding factor. If it was like $10, people waste money all the time. If it was more? Gets stupider by the dollar.

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    [–] 11 points 3 weeks ago

    Just waiting for that 2040s ironic nostalgia wave to drive up the price again lol

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    [–] 10 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

    Provenance is the biggest issue in Art. NFTs aren’t stupid, thinking that computer generated ape artwork with no actual scarcity is a good investment is stupid.

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  • [–] 15 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

    NFTs are stupid. Provenance only matters when it comes to the ownership of art. For the real purpose of art, the viewing and appreciation of art, it doesn't matter at all.

    For digital art, provenance only matters if someone wants to create artificial scarcity by applying intellectual property laws to art. Trying to make digital things artificially scarce is stupid.

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    I still hold an "NFT". A tank i won on a challenge in War thunder. Grinding motherfuckers, but... it was a nice tank

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago

    I mean, deserved.

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