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And what's the origin of that phrase?

And yes I am an old geezer, a slow one too.

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[-] Zarobi@aussie.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

Personally, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. If they're rude, I give them an orange or red coloured tag. Everyone has bad days, after all. But if I see they already have a red coloured tag, I just block them instead. It goes the other way too though, kindness puts you closer towards green.

I think many people have a system like this. It's a small community, often it's the same repeat troublemakers being caustic. I can't speak to how others use the tags, though.

[-] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Very similar process here. I’ve yet to block anyone as far as I remember, but I see red tags, I know to scroll past and ignore. Or if I see it in a thread I’m reading, I know not to engage if it’s bad faith or clearly just unpleasant, even if I have to read it to understand what follows. Wherever I see green or blue, I’ll stop and read even if it seems uninteresting, because those are the people that have proven insightful and empathetic or whatever else it was that made me tag. I usually write the description too in the tags.

Perhaps worth noting though, I’m not sure these tags are a built in lemmy or equivalent feature, or rather a client thing. I use voyager if someone’s interested.

[-] Krusty@quokk.au 4 points 7 hours ago

A tag is a user-defined attribute linked to your username. This may also include tracking how many times they up and down vote your posts/comments and aggregate displayed as a single number with a plus or minus sign, depending on which way it's going.

Think of it like a hashtag. But just for you, defined by only them.

Maybe it's "dumbass, racist, transphobic -11" or "sweetheart, inspirational, dogpics +9000"

[-] josephc@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago

I'm all ears if you have recommendations for "sweetheart inspirational dogpics".

[-] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 hours ago

I've got a few labled "Troll" lol

[-] HuntressHimbo@lemmy.zip 44 points 14 hours ago

Some clients for social media allow you to add tags to other users. Basically just a mark only you can see. That way if you encounter them again you know who you're dealing with. Generally used negatively, to mark people you don't like. Upgrading to blocked just means converting that into a full software block for whatever platform. Generally meaning you won't see that user and they won't see you again.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 29 minutes ago

seems unnecessarily convoluted, rather just block and not deal with it.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 13 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

It generally only means the person doing the block won't see the person who blocked them; the blocked person still sees the one who blocked them. Only some sites take it both ways. Lemmy isn't one of them.

[-] Console_Modder@sh.itjust.works 6 points 14 hours ago

Do you know which clients let you tag people? I'm using Jerboa and that feature is not supported

[-] ZeroCool@piefed.ca 12 points 14 hours ago

I'm not the person you asked, but I do know that Voyager supports user tagging.

https://github.com/aeharding/voyager
https://getvoyager.app/

[-] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 14 hours ago

Summit also has tagging support

[-] mountainRadish@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

I am on Summit, how was I tagged as scary troll 😂 ?

I think it would be a useful feature

But it is PRIVATE right? Like only I can see it, right?

I think.l it is a nice feature for when I befriend someone here and I can add a tag explaining how we became friends. I have MCI, so the memory is fried (KFB)

[-] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 14 hours ago

Yeah, it's private. You just long press a person's username and hit the "Tag User" button.

[-] mountainRadish@lemmy.world -2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Woooww, lemmy is awesome!!!

Your tag is Question Killer, 'cause you killed my question with an answer

Edit: I also just poopoopeepee

[-] nocturne@slrpnk.net 3 points 13 hours ago

Woooww, lemmy is awesome!!!

This is not a Lemmy feature, it is an app feature. It is also available in piefed, and many piefed apps.

[-] mountainRadish@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

Oh :( so does that mean that all the tags are stored in the app locally and will be lost on reinstall?!

[-] nocturne@slrpnk.net 2 points 9 hours ago

Unsure how the apps actually handle it, but more than likely, unless you are using piefed, in which case it is saved to your account.

[-] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago

Lol thanks. I'm more of a troll troller most of the time. You'll typically find me replying to the most downvotes comment in a thread, telling them why they are dumb and shouldn't comment. I do try to be helpful occasionally though.

[-] mountainRadish@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

So I sound dumb and a troll? Or are you sarcastic?

Also, this tag feature seems to be not related to Lemmy but rather Summit.

[-] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

No, I wasn't calling you dumb or a troll. Just saying that your tag for me might confuse you in the wild because I'm not normally engaging with nice people like yourself.

[-] eurodyne@piefed.world 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Piefed supports tagging as part of the platform. It runs as part of Lemmy, but the instances use a different software like mbin does

[-] papalonian@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

You can tag on Boost for Lemmy.

[-] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Thunder offers it

[-] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 19 points 12 hours ago

Tagging someone so you know what kind of bullshit they're on vs. blocking so you don't see their bullshit at all.

[-] ZeroCool@piefed.ca 24 points 14 hours ago

So others don't have to search for the missing context like I did: https://piefed.ca/post/887087#comment_5810045

It means that person had previously tagged you for being a suspected troll before deciding to block you entirely.

[-] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 12 hours ago

I have yet to see anyone complain about being blocked, reviewed the evidence, and agreed with the complainer. I'm sure it happens, but the pattern seems strong.

I mean, I don't go hang out at .ml because I'd probably get blocked there so I don't go. They don't want me and I don't want them. I don't see a problem there.

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