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submitted 9 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) by Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

So. I don't really have much of an excuse for this. I'm just flat fucking stupid and asking for help. I can pay you back as well, just... god I'm stupid.

For some backstory: I've not been super active the past month and a half because we (myself and my bestie, we shall call her J) were buying a house. Well, she is. Turns out that this process is a fucking nightmare and neither one of us have had much in the run of energy to do anything else. Between moving costs/furniture at the new place (as where I'm living came furnished) as well as a stupid amount of ADHD... I just straight up lost track of bills.

My ISP contacted me today very angry saying "Hey. Pay your fucking bill" and suspended the account. The internet is still active, I don't know for how long, and I'm doing what I can to work on that but... I mean... I work online. So having the internet shut down is going to be a nightmare for that. I can still send it via my phone but not exactly a fun tunnel to be using.

My ask is simple but shameful. Could I please get some help for the damn bill? It's $300 Canadian, apparently $213 USD (my god), but yeah. I don't know. I'm sorry for even asking this and I feel like a MORON. Also asking where I can but... yeah. I'm sorry. As for "Why the hell is it $300?" Well, my internet bill is about $140. There's a late fee. I forgot to pay last month too because, well, this. I was focused more on power bill. Ever since my shit roommate previously left, I've had a bit still worked up on one bill or the other usually. Due to that, I focused too hard on power bill and ADHD forgot internet bill existed.

If you can help at all and don't hate me on sight, please consider throwing a buck or two to my Ko-fi. Thanks for reading either way and again... I'm sorry

Edit: And sorted... thank you to everyone... I wish I had more to say or do other than just endless thank yous. But thank you

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[-] roux@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago

bump. I was in a similar boat with bills a few years back.

[-] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 hours ago

Thanks and yeah... can't say I'm the only person who has ever done it for sure. I'm definitely a moron.

[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 2 points 6 hours ago
[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago
[-] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 8 hours ago

Thankies <3

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 hours ago

Bumping ❤️

You don't have to apologize for the community for its intended purpose lol

[-] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Yeah but I'm Canadian and an abuse victim

this post was submitted on 01 Aug 2026
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