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I think it would be depressing to have someone watch me die, for me and for them. I would hope that no one needs to watch that.

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[-] iatenine@piefed.social 5 points 28 minutes ago

I just hope to die with no dependents, painlessly and unexpec

[-] solrize@lemmy.ml 2 points 35 minutes ago

Old joke: I hope to die peacefully in my sleep like my grandfather, not screaming in terror like his passengers.

[-] seathru@quokk.au 7 points 1 hour ago

When that time comes; I expect to die because I'm alone. I do too many stupid things when no ones looking.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 minutes ago

With God, you're never alone.

[-] TryingToBeGood@reddthat.com 1 points 22 minutes ago

As I'm the youngest and none of us have any kids, I'll probably be left alone. And that’s fine.

[-] MrOtingocni@lemmy.world 1 points 10 minutes ago* (last edited 9 minutes ago)

I would prefer not to die alone. Not only for the company in probably one of, if not the biggest, scariest, event in someone's life, but also because of the logistics. I'd hate to be going out, unable to move while laying on the kitchen floor, and desperately, deliriously, thirsty with 2 days worth of shit caked in my pants.

That said, if going alone seems to be the case, I'll try to arrange things in advance and face it with some degree of stoicism.

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 24 minutes ago

I have seen many people when they are sick at close to death but not at the exact time of death. Im pretty sure most people I know who have died where alone or just hospital staff at the exact moment of death. So I guess I expect to die alone in that regard but there will likely be loved ones still alive when I die. I sorta want to go out anonymously. humanity has left such an ugly mark on this earth I don't mind not being part of its history.

[-] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 7 points 1 hour ago

I never understood the fear of dying alone really. Like if I die in my sleep on my couch while my wife is away, does that mean I’ve died alone? Doesn’t seem like such a horrible fate. I’d rather die alone than die in pain.

[-] Sergio@piefed.social 3 points 1 hour ago

Ideally once I was old enough I'd say bye to everyone and head into a woods somewhere with whatever I needed for assisted dying. If I'm healthy enough, I'm willing to dig my own grave! Then a professional would come by to fill out the death certificate and plant a tree over me.

[-] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 1 points 48 minutes ago

Probably...

[-] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 13 points 2 hours ago

Expect to die alone, absolutely. Do I hope to die alone, absolutely fucking not. My life has been one miserable tragedy after the other. This fate has not been my choice.

[-] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 hour ago

Right there with you. May the stars find us both a better path before the end comes.

[-] tomkatt@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago

Hope so. If that happens, it’ll mean my wife won’t have to. We only have each other and I wouldn’t want her to have to go through that.

[-] flandish@lemmy.world 5 points 1 hour ago

i lost my first wife when i was 32. she was 41. i’m 47 now. i remarried. but she’s an alcoholic and i worry i’ll be holding her hand when she goes, too.

i will either die of a stress heart attack in my car otw home, hopefully not harming anyone, or i’ll die alone and old and having lost everyone.

[-] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 2 points 1 hour ago

I was just a kid when I read the Kurt Vonnegut story with the Ethical Suicide parlors.

You go in and a beautiful woman sits with you as you slowly pass.

[-] whaleross@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I expect to die alone. Hopefully fast and painless without noticing.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 hours ago

It really depends on the manner of my death. If it was gruesome and tragic? Alone please. My family doesn't need to see that.

Old and in my bed and knowing my death is coming? I want to be in my husband's arms, I want my son to know I didn't suffer.

[-] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Nah, my wife will have to handle my loss, God willing. I've seen how grandmas and grandpas react to the passing of their better halves, women seem to handle it better. 🤷‍♂️

[-] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

My grandfathers, uncles, and dad all married for life, outlived their wives, then died of grief within a couple of years.

Yet when I repeatedly tell my wife I’ll see her put in the cold ground before I cark it, this vexes her for some reason.

[-] TheDarkQuark@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I'm still young, but I think there is a non-zero and significant chance of me dying alone. Even the thought of it scares me. Also, I think it is a terrible thing for a child (no matter how old) to go through. Man, I'm never having kids, lol!

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