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Unrelated to being trans but I thought I'm lonely because I'm trans (can be a factor why not?) but I realized once the high school is over and I moved to a different country, being lonely is normal.

Even during school's summer holidays, I was lonely until school reopens.

Your only real friends are your pets. Thanks capitalism.

Having a pet is a luxury BTW considering everyone is living in poverty even if you have a job LMFAO.

I have borderline and I gave up from dating for my mental health so having a partner is even not an option for me. Dating pool is garbage too like it's either chasers who see you as a femboy/sextoy or simply eggs who don't know they're attracted to the idea of "man turning into a woman" instead of really loving you. Then they realize they're trans then bOOm.

Pffffff... I wish I was a cis woman... :/

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[-] sidalsolgun@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Also even though I'm attracted to men technically, being around them gives me dyshoria. I can't imagine hugging a man without having dysphoria.

I'm 5'8, women's 13 shoe size, 45cm shoulder width (I used to swim A LOT since my childhood), and I'm so dysphoric that shit reached to insecurity point.

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