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[-] ccunning@lemmy.world 71 points 1 week ago

Most (but not all) duvets and duvet covers have ties/loops to tie the corners (and sometimes the midpoints) off to keep this from happening.

Honestly I never had this issue nor knew about the loops/ties until I graduated from a full/queen cover to a king size one and it became a real problem.

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 80 points 1 week ago

I have been around for 3 and a half decades and I've never had a duvet that's done this in the UK

[-] ccunning@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago

For the first three decades of my life my duvet had the loops but the cover didn’t have the ties. I just thought the loops were something to grab on to while spelunking into the cover to insert the duvet 😂

[-] save_the_humans@leminal.space 14 points 1 week ago

You don't have to go spelunking if you don't want to. Turn the cover inside out, lay the duvet on top, tie off the corners if you have ties, and turn it all back right side over.

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[-] NullPointerException@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

The ones I have from IKEA, no.

[-] Antares@fedinsfw.app 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I dont know about the previous commenter's fancy duvets/covers but the ikea ones have switched between snaps and loops and none at all between product lines. I have noticed though that the cotton covers tend to stick well to the polyester duvets such that they stay in place without

[-] AbsolutelyClawless@piefed.social 12 points 1 week ago

Obviously a different thing, but your comment unlocked a several decades old memory about my mom tying the ends of my duvet to the bed frame, because I would kick it off the bed while asleep. Wow, that memory was pulled from some very dusty and almost forgotten part of my brain, lol.

[-] Lyrl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago

Our comforter is tied to the bed footrest on my husband's side, because otherwise I steal it in my sleep. It keeps marital harmony!

[-] Rothe@piefed.social 9 points 1 week ago

Definitely not most. I have never seen such a thing.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

It still happens especially with fabric like viscose. My duvet has ties for in-between corners too, but my comforter doesn't, so I get what's being described here. I need to sew some in and stop being a lazy ass.

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[-] McGuirk808@lemmy.world 39 points 1 week ago

I'm an uncultured slob that doesn't put my blankets in giant pillowcases. I am happy in my ignorance.

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[-] PennyRoyal@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 week ago
[-] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

And also: yes.

[-] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 week ago

It's stuff like this that makes me both relieved and slightly ashamed that I'm in my 30s and still don't know quite what a duvet is.

Okay, you know how we put pillows in pillowcases, so that when it's time to wash the bed linens you don't have to wash and more to the point dry the pillow stuffing?

Take that same concept and apply it to your comforter or bedspread.

A duvet is a thick blanket that's designed to come apart so you can wash or exchange the outer layer without having to wash the fluffy insulation. Another feature is that you can own multiple covers and one actual blanket, so if you want to change up your colors you can just swap out the cover. One-piece comforters don't fold up that compactly for storage, but empty duvet covers do.

[-] Zwiebel@feddit.org 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I've grown up with these, I think they're the standard blanket in Germany. We also have a thin inner for summer and a thick goose down inner for winter. And a whole bunch of covers, so you can just throw one in the wash and put the next one on.

Actually now that I think about it we always buy pillow case+duvet cover as a matching set, idk if you can even get then separately lol

They're not typical in the United States; one-piece comforters are more typical.

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[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 17 points 1 week ago

You're supposed to tie the corners in

[-] brap@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

I've never owned a single duvet or cover in my life that had this functionality.

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[-] jqubed@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Not all duvets or covers have those ties. It can be annoying when they’re like that! The burrito or California Roll method works pretty well for keeping the corners in place, though.

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[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago
[-] ccunning@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

This gives a good idea what it typically looks like if your duvet and cover has it.

[-] Itsamelemmy@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

And if they don't have this. Hand sew a shoelace to the inside of the cover, and just tie it to the corner of the duvet. Shoelace knot about an inch down the corner tight, and it won't go anywhere.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Both my duvet and cover have little loops. But one has loops that are just long enough to pull them through the other and tie a knot. Works well enough. I feel like some country that uses a lot of duvets should set a standard requirement for all duvets to have loops and all covers to have ties.

[-] jqubed@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Sometimes (but not always) there are little straps in the corners of each to tie them into place. If you’re ever buying another it’s worth looking for that!

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Oh nice. I have these ancient Ikea covers that are super old but my dog likes to dig in my bed so I hang onto them because it's ok if they get ripped.

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[-] Rhaedas@fedia.io 13 points 1 week ago

Magnets. Not kidding. They sell strong magnets with a cloth covering so it doesn't have edges, and you just secure the ends with them.

Do you have a link to some like these? 😮

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[-] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

I eventually just started using a top sheet + bottom sheet. Easier to wash, no spelunking into the duvet to find the corner ties, and can change out the top sheet if I ever want to change the feel of my bedroom! I was finding that I would put off washing the duvet just due to the effort of dealing with it 😵‍💫

[-] auzy1@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

It's the bed cover that pops off the mattress every morning that shits me

Fortunately, got a new bed cover and seems fine now. Best investment ever

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[-] FryHyde@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago

I'm 41 and I still don't know what a duvet is or why it needs covered.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Come sleep over with me.

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[-] melfie@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Duvets are a pain in the ass and both the duvet and cover need to be washed anyway. Why not just stick with comforters with sheets and save yourself the trouble?

[-] Cort@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

At least with down, the duvet cover can be washed more often than the duvet. Plus you can change the color or design without wasting as much material buying a whole new duvet/comforter.

[-] MummifiedClient5000@feddit.dk 7 points 1 week ago

Flip it every few days. It works pretty good once you're over the initial shock of having the feet end near your face.

[-] riot@fedia.io 12 points 1 week ago
[-] SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 6 points 1 week ago

I think I could make a fortune going around teaching people how to do their bed, cause I never had huge existential problems like these. It's crazy.

[-] projektilski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago

I thought I was the only one.

[-] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

Duvet makes no sense to me.

[-] Antares@fedinsfw.app 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Why do duvets have covers when u have to wash both anyways?

Maybe another question is how long can the duvet go between washes when you regularly wash the covers? Is it jeans or jackets?

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

It's the bane of my fucking existence!

No but seriously though. Pisses me off so much!

[-] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

Omfg yes. I am under this duvet so that I have a heavy warm blanket over me. Not some shit ass excuse for a fitted sheet.

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