For me, its Xena.

Few years back, height of covid epidemic, was living in homeless shelters. Overcrowded slums, everyone miserable, yelling, screaming, fights, abuse, rage. At one point, could feel the anger building in me. Powerless, a victim, desire for retribution. What good was trying to be better person, when all it meant was people walking over me.

Started rewatching xena, hadn't in years. Big message of the show: when surrounded by hate, violence, it's tempting to give in, to not be a victim. But you have a choice, to not continue the cycle, to make a better world. I so needed to hear that message at that time in my life.

What tv show helped you?

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[+] 64 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (8 children)
  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    That is my answer too! The ending is the only media I’ve ever seen that comes close to my own philosophy/beliefs about the afterlife. I think about the different philosophies the show presented all the time, and especially wonder “how many points would I get/lose if I do this” lol

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    [–] 40 points 2 years ago*

    The Bermaga-Era Star Treks (TNG-ENT). For better or worse, they were some of the best television made in that time, and a guiding light for morality, ethics, and hope for what the best of humanity can be. Eventually…

    Ya know, after we nearly annihilate ourselves in a few decades in WWIII, then invent warp drive, get visited by aliens, and decide to form a democratic socialist world government that puts the worst mistakes of humanity behind us so that we can finally begin exploring the stars.

    It doesn’t get mentioned much outside that one movie, but all that has to happen first before humanity gets over its collective bullshit. I’ll probably be dead by then, though.

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  • [–] 34 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

    All of the Star Trek show, especially TNG, Voyager and Emterprise, because I've watched them so many times when I was a kid at my grandparent's house.

    I was fascinated by the various captains. They were always so smart, capable, full of resources, curious, charismatic and generally great leaders, mostly coherent with their morals. They were basically badass scientist explorers and I identified so much with them without even realizing it.

    Now whenever I find myself in any leadership position, I ask myself what they would do. I could choose to be logical and intellectual like Picard, empathetic like Janeway or brave like Archer. This shaped me more than I could ever imagine.

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    [–] 29 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Dark really sucks me into a dark damp place that is just really calming when I’m feeling down.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Star Trek, of course. Especially TNG has been the best role model for humanity that's ever been on TV.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago

    Yeah, TNG was the most inspiring, Captain Picard always commanded with integrity. The only time I can recall he disappointed me was when he sent Ro to spy and pushed her to do things she wasn't comfortable with.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Firefly helped me realize perceptions are just that and don't have much bearing on people, also that there is a liminal space between society and revolutionaries.

    Deadwood helped me understand that personalities are expressed, refined philosophies.

    Cowboy bebop reminded me how dreams and life are made of the same stuff and that nothing is permanent, stagnant or impossible.

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    The Good Place. My wife and I were going through some spiritual crisis as we were questioning Mormonism. We started watching the Good Place, not really knowing what it was. The philosophy and comedy came at just the right time. It's a great show.

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  • [–] 19 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    MASH, is a show that always makes me laugh. It's also taught me to appreciate the things I have, because the characters in the show don't have much, but they still find ways to have fun.

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  • [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Sliders. One of those accessible sci-fi shows that helped instill a love of the genre

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    [–] 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    Arcane. Hands down 10/10 on practically every possible metric, but the thing that really got me was the way they portray trauma and the subsequent impact on mental health. I work with folks who have experienced trauma and I thought this was one of the best depictions of the aftermath I had ever seen in media.

    Also, this is a perfect depiction of a Greek tragedy, in the sense that everything ends in tragedy not despite, but because of everyone's best intentions. As the story unfolds you understand everyone's motivations and they all make sense. There's no perfectly good or bad characters, just a lot of people doing the best they can with the cards they were dealt.

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    [–] 16 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Reading Rainbow.

    I'm old and I'm not kidding. geordi-yes

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    [–] 15 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    The expanse. Battlestar Galactica. Just how wild things get and the whole "what if" factor of where society is headed and what could be in the black beyond.

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    [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    X Files - scared the crap out of me. Wasn’t a fan of aliens and screw that one episode with the inbred family.

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    Babylon 5! I was born in 94, when it premiered and have always watched it (along with Star Trek). It was one of the first shows that really pushed the continuous plot over serialized and it makes rewatches a game of finding the hints.

    I've said before that Babylon 5 is the more realistic depiction of if we had made contact with aliens over star trek (at least the early ones), but the heros are still that.

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    [–] 12 points 2 years ago

    Whose Line is it Anyway. It got me interested in improv, which has become something I enjoy doing.

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    [–] 11 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Silicon valley

    I totally relate with gifoyle a lot

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    [–] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Gilmore Girls. I know the show has some problematic humor but it's one of the best shows I've ever watched as far as characterization is concerned. The writing and the characters have a way of sucking you into the story that I haven't really found in any other show.

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    [–] 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    A newer show that hit me a bit hard is Pantheon, it's sci-fi with a premise on AI, government and business control, cults, and has great animation.

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    [–] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Mr. Robot; showing the worse of humanity, how far people will go corrupting once held morals the whole way. Not being able to understand oneself or the people around them, but still wanting and hoping to see people enjoy life.

    I believe the series ended on a great note, though some may disagree.

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    [–] 10 points 2 years ago

    I'm not even kidding but planet earth the original series. I learned some life lessons from that one surprisingly.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Scrubs - landed at just the right time for me, fresh out of school and working through first real job/relationship. While my mates and I aren't Turk n JD close, we were closer than the typical dude-bro stereotype of the time and it felt like this show just made it a lot easier to love your best mate without the homophobic shame BS!

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago*

    Mr. Wizard's World. MacGyver. The A-Team.
    And all the cooking shows on PBS in the 80s.

    I've always been someone to tinker and break things apart to create new things. I've always been a problem solver.

    Oh - and I pretty much got my entire sense of humor from Three's Company, Mork and Mindy, Cheers, and Mash.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    adventure time and bojack horseman

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago*

    Mr. Wizard and MacGyver were big ones for me. They hit a curiosity and adventure sweet spot for me as a kid. Mr. Rogers and Bob Ross also helped teach me empathy and kept my artistic side interested.

    I’m really grateful for the era I grew up in and the television personalities it gave me. It’s nice knowing that my influences have stood the test of time and I appreciate the foundation they gave my young mind.

    If only I could keep that energy and inspiration going. Anxiety coupled with depression can really get you lost.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago

    Six Feet Under, by far. It’s (in my opinion) the best show ever made. I never cry, but I cannot stop myself from crying at the end. It’s a perfect end to a perfect show. Its themes have a lot to do with themes in my own life and it changed my perspective on… everything? Nah, but a lot of things. Especially grief.

    I was elated that my now-spouse who is a mortician had never heard of it… watching it again with someone to whom the subject matter… mattered even more was an incredible experience.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Avatar: The Last Airbender

    Just a damned good show all around that showed younger me a lot of what makes compelling stories work.

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    [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Twin peaks X-files Xena

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    The Simpsons raised me. It was a paternal and maternal figure, and friend. It prepared me for the rest of my life.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    While young, x files and South Park. While older, Twin peaks, which I only watched recently including the new season 3.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Malcolm in the middle

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    When I was young, I read "Call of the Wild" and "White Fang".

    Littlest Hobo was my fav show, about a dog helping people.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (9 children)

    Big bang theory. Sheldon made me realise that I am often selfish, compulsive neurotic, socially inept, an asshole without realising/ wanting it and super intelligent.

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    [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    National Geographic. Mutual of Omaha. Reading Rainbow. Magic School Bus. Bill Nye the Science Guy. Ghostwriter. Mr. Rogers Neighborhood

    I grew up on PBS and books. Couldn't tell you if it was good or bad, but that TV had a lot of of impact on me.

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    [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    Basically any show on PBS Kids. I used to watch back when Mister Rogers' Neighborhood aired regularly on it. Other shows I watched included Zoboomafoo (with the Kratt brothers!), Clifford, Arthur (was sad when I heard it'd aired its final new episode recently), Cyberchase, and Clifford's Puppy Days. My parents didn't have cable until I was a teenager, so I was pretty much raised on nothing but PBS Kids (as far as TV shows I could watch).

    Another show I used to watch when I was really young, though, was Disney's House of Mouse on ABC Saturday Mornings. I was devastated when they stopped airing it. We didn't have a TV guide or anything, so, when it simply didn't come on one morning, it caught me by complete surprise. On a less sad note, I think I actually still have Snowed In at the House of Mouse on VHS.

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