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my first drunk experience was at 14. found some alcohol in the fridge/on the counter (don’t remember which), the places my dad usually leaves his alc. poured myself some when he was in the other room and drank it in front of my friend on facetime.

didn’t quite vomit but nearly did. he told me i was entertaining but also really weird (kept talking about communism and communist china?)

i also remember saying “i love you” to him but he fortunately hung up right before i said that.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

4 or 5, though I have no active memory of it, but apparently the day after my dad's birthday, my younger brother and I found the crate of empty-ish beer bottles from the party the night before, and we drank the little leftover beer from those bottles. Apparently we slept like drunk roses the rest of the day.

After that I never drank alcohol again until I was well in my twenties. I remember being drunk off champagne one New Years Eve, I was 26 at the time, to drink away the lonely feeling I had at midnight, when I was the only single guy in a party filled with married people. We had done the countdown and at midnight everyone turned to their partner to kiss them a happy new year, and I had no one, that was the most miserable start of the year I ever had. So I disappeared in a bottle that night.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Never. Am 38 currently.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Probably about 14. My parents had a well stocked liquor cabinet. Enough stuff to where I could try small amounts of various things and not be noticed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 21 hours ago

14 I think. Stopped completely shortly after I was legal at 19.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 21 hours ago

14 as well. I used to play in a marching band as a kid and we traveled abroad for a couple concerts over a long weekend: picture an unsupervized child surrounded by enabling adults in Southern Germany with access to free beer for one night.
I drank almost 3 liters of beer (yeah German beer is better than any other, sorry), got escorted to my hotel room by our town mayor, where I proceeded to expel my soul via esophagus and... March and play on the morning of the next day.
I was right in front of the bass drum.
20 years later I can steel feel every hit like a clear pain deep in my skull bones.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 21 hours ago

18 I think. We were much more interested in weed and LSD.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

18, my soon-to-be-first-girlfriend was hosting a party.

I still have a fondness for coconut rum and sprite and big naturals.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

That's funny, I get to ranting about the commies after I've had a few as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago
  1. There was this bar/disco that had entry from 14+. What could possibly go wrong :). Drank in the woods on the way there
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I was 21 years old.

CW: Descriptions of Being SickDecided the best way to begin drinking was to do shots of Southern Comfort with my roommate. I got like blackout drunk, woke up hours later needing to vomit... I ran to the bathroom where I found my roommate passed out in the bathtub in the fetal position in his own sick. I turned to the toilet as the SoCo and bile made its way to the top of my throat, it was go time, now or never... to my horror both the seat and the lid were down. My mouth filled as I tried to get the lid open and then... disaster struck. The puke hit the diagonal plain of the half raised lid and sprayed all over the walls and toilet tank. I then slipped and face planted into the tank giving myself a black eye.

I didn't drink for two years after that night.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

First drink? 19

First time actually drunk? 21

Last time drunk? 29

Number of times actually drunk: 3 I find it really an unpleasant feeling and not just the hangover. Being drunk and not having complete control of my body, the weird fog in my brain. Yuck... Couple that with the hangover the next day, it's just not worth it for me. I never saw the point of going out with a group of friends to just get "wasted".

Current Age: 54 and I enjoy 1 to 2 glasses of wine at dinner with my wife around 3 or 4 times a month. Once in a great while I'll get a 6 pack of beer. Usually when a local brewery has their Dark Doppleboch out.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I feel the same but about being stoned.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I’m the same way. I’ll have a few drinks but never to excess. Not to pass judgement on those who choose to enjoy without inhibition but I just don’t find enjoyment in not having my wits about me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Not interested in getting drunk.
I am fine with one drink.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

i've never been. straight edge since i was 13

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Honestly? I was around 26. I "discovered" alcohol alone, not in a social environment. I've always been a loner so social drinking wasn't a thing for me because I was never social.

Anyway, I was in grad school and had some temporary housing where there was a lot of food and crap people left over in the fridge and pantry. There were two things left over in the fridge that were opened that sparked my curiosity. No idea how old they were. But one was amaretto and I think the other was some wine. Got curious and tried a bit and enjoyed the effects. I had technically had alcohol many occasions prior, but not enough to get remotely near drunk or anything.

Spend the remainder of grad school occasionally binge drinking alone on the weekends to the point of vomiting. Carried on that habit for a little bit after but I hardly ever do that now.

I had actually never really drank socially until very recently. As someone with severe social anxiety, I was surprised at how helpful I found it in social situations. I only had a couple of drinks in these particular scenarios instead of getting piss drunk tho. And again, I am not social anyway so this doesn't happen on the regular. But goddamn. I didn't understand self medicating for anxiety until that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

For sure, I'm usually uncomfortably quiet in groups, but every drink makes me a little louder!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

This is the reason why I don't drink. I don't have problems with socialising, and once I drink to much I start to tell a shit ton of crap and then think about what shit I said while being drunk for the next two weeks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ITT: people bragging about how they don't drink.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Projection?

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 21 hours ago
  1. Little me waddled around the house when there was a party. Parents didn't look for like a minute and I found empty beer bottles and tried the last drops in them. Turns out it doesn't take a lot of beer to get a 2 year old drunk. Slept very well afterwards.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Idk if I was drunk but I was probably 17 or 18. Had some jello shots it was a good time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

36 I believe, I planned it because I rarely of ever drink alcohol, but wanted to experience being really fucking drunk, got a few people I trusted and got really fucking drunk, they didn't.

Was nothing really fun or entertaining, didn't help any depression or anything. One of the most annoying and just no benefit for me drinking.

Have not drunk alcohol sense, don't see any point

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I'll let you know when/if it happens.

I was too uncool to ever be in a binge drinking peer pressure situation and have yet to find an alcoholic drink I actually like the taste of, so I've never managed to drink enough in one sitting to feel any significant effects.

Don't get me wrong: I want to like cocktails, as all the flavor combinations seem pretty interesting. It's just that whenever I actually try one, I'm disappointed by how the bitter taste of the alcohol ruins whatever else is going on in the drink.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah, same here. I'm middle aged and I've never been drunk. I don't see the appeal, and most alcohol is nasty.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Ican only drink something if it's somewhat diluted. If it's too noticeable Iepxerience it like how hand desinfectant smells. Especially high volume stuff. Just not enjoyable. :/

What I actually enjoy is a citrus heavy gin tonic that is basically diluted to <10%.
But I probably could drink it without gin anyway.

Now something like Sake (for example mixed with yuzu) actually tastes good without being heavy in alcohol taste.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I'm in my mid 30s and have never been drunk before. I don't like how alcohol tastes and drinking it doesn't really add much value for me. The only alcoholic beverages I do like are Baileys, Pisang Ambon (mixed with 7up/Sprite), white chocolate liquor and Tokkelroom. Recently discovered Salmari and I like that as well. I very rarely drink any of that, though, and when I do it's like one glass at most. Tokkelroom though...I like it so much that I wouldn't be surprised if at some point I ended up eating all of that in one go.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

15 - an alcoholic neighbour of a friend of mine saw me an my 2 friends hanging at a playground at night and invited us for a drink. He was quite drunk already and passed out pretty soon after so we stole the rest of his beer and wine and went to my friend's place to continue drinking. Pretty fun experience all in all. R.I.P. Eki.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Never. My liver doesn't process it correctly. If I have one drink I'll puke for 3 days.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_intolerance

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Can you still enjoy other recreational mood/mind altering substances?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I've only tried edibles and they had no impact at all. Whatever's going on with my liver may also put me in this category:

https://kolas.com/blog/why-dont-edibles-get-me-high

50mg in gummies did nothing, 16mg in coconut oil did nothing. I need to try upping the oil dosage.

Also strangely resistant to anasthesia. Had to be put under for open heart surgery and kept talking to the doctors:

"So should I feel something yet?"

"Hang on, it's coming."

"Feels like I should be counting backwards or something..."

"Let's up the dosage..."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 minutes ago

Welp the sober life chose you hahah

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Are you a redhead by any chance?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago

Not a redhead proper, but I have the recessive gene. My grandmother was a redhead, and while my hair is black, my beard comes in black, red, brown and blonde. Well, now turning white. ;)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
  1. My parents didn’t hide the liquor.
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

i, 14. dad would keep it in the fridge or counter so i drank it once on call with a friend and nearly vomited.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Same, I was in eighth grade.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

14 or 15 - I only got vomiting drunk once and it was the first time. I generally don't drink and I never drink to excess.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Never been vomiting drunk, got pretty close on my first time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I was just 15.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

As per the local law, 21, though it was just me sampling drinks for my birthday. I ended up being one of the few who hated the feeling.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It was my brother's graduation party and i had pretty much free access to Hugo and other sweet booze. Huge mistake. Ended up vomiting in my sleep.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Mines similar. 14, cousins wedding. Every table had a bottle of champagne and us kids swiped a few and hit the parking lot

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