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Please don't think I'm here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is 'eeeh' before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I've been pavloved bc it's always used by someone disagreeing. But I'm happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the 'eeeh' or 'erm' that annoys me.

So what's a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying "eeeh actually 'eeh' is a perfectly fine term" would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I've said all this.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

The replacement of the term “conspiracy theory” with just “conspiracy”.

That’s two different things. If we equate the two semantically we can’t discuss them.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 34 minutes ago

It's not a word but '...' ok... thanks... I guess...

What do you want? Is it on our do you want something else? It's fine...

Cmon.................

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Ironic considering your username is almost an ASL

[–] [email protected] 2 points 47 minutes ago

American Sign Language?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Please do the needful.

This one really grinds my gears! I think it's because the person can't even be bothered to describe what they want you to do, just go fix it and don't bother me with any details.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

"Completely different" when the two things are actually very similar

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago

"Oftentimes"

Its always interchangeable with Often. Just use Often.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago

I cringe so hard at the twitterist carebear-hugbox way of smugly claiming the intellectual high ground and shaming somebody:

"Be better." or "Do better."

The sentiment isn't terrible, but it's prevalent use is obviously just dripping with arrogance and thrown out in the most petty ways. Ugh!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

"It is what it is"

I get the sentiment behind it, it's just usually so defeatist/dismissive of a situation to me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

That’s now how people in my subculture use it.

They use it to mean “it’s too late to avoid this problem; let’s talk about things we can change at this point”.

Example:

“If you hadn’t stopped at that rest area the killer never would have slashed our tires”

“Well if you hadn’t jumped for those cheap tires maybe he wouldn’t have been able to slash them with a butter knife”

“And if you’d paid for the triple A we’d have a ride by now”

“Look, it is what it is. Let’s just figure out a way to get back to town without having to follow the road”

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago
  • paradigm shift
  • military grade encryption
  • cyber kill chain
[–] [email protected] 28 points 11 hours ago (6 children)

"I could care less" to mean "I could NOT care less"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 minutes ago

I’ve always interpreted it as meaning that I care so little for something I can’t even be bothered to put the effort in to not care about it as much as I should… but, yeah, it’s used incorrectly way too often and makes no sense most of the time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

I sometimes say "I could care less, but not by much"

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 hours ago

Someone could take all the answers here and create a copypasta equivalent of fingernails on a chalkboard.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

"living my/your/their best life"

Please gtfo

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Not a term, but a lack thereof:

People I have to regularly interact with for work have been excluding "to be", especially with "needs", and it's infuriating.

This issue needs escalated. That report needs fleshed out. Let me know if anything needs cleared up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

To quote Shakespeare, "Or not?"

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 14 hours ago (7 children)

Especially in news headlines: slams, blasts, mind-blowing, hack (or lifehack)

I'm sure there are others, but that's all my brain can handle at the moment.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

Starting every sentence with "So". "So" being the way to indicate the beginning of a sentence.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

"Live. Laugh. Love." or similar.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

So many things. In written form, I hate when someone writes "Period." after they make a point to mean "this can't be argued" or whatever. My good bitch, I don't think you understand how arguing works. 😆

"Full stop" is a close second.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

That's fine as long as you don't spell out the periods. 😆

By the by, I'd love to be the guy with the confidence to end an argument with "thus it is proven". That'd be epic. I think I've only ever used QED humorously or ironically.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

If you don’t have the periods it could just be someone saying qed really loud

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 12 hours ago (7 children)

Mama, momma, mommas…

“Hey Facebook mommas, I’ve got a question about…”

I don’t know why, but it annoys the shit out of me.

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