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[–] [email protected] 38 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It's kind of a bummer as it's nice to have a more artistic representation of sex outside of porn which is more of a commodity. Movies can connect the sexy scenes to the non-sexy scenes which potentially makes them more powerful. Also, movies can tie moral value to sex which is interesting to explore.

I am in favor of sex in movies making a comeback, as long as it doesn't create problems for the actors.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago (6 children)

I think a lot of times the scenes are still done heavily through a male gaze. You'll see more frontal of her than you ever will of a man.

Sex in movies always felt awkward because usually it's a plot device to push the male character's story, a 'reward' for the male character... Or just one of many sexual assault scenes bestowed on nearly every female character ever because "DRAMA."

Not all sex scenes are like this, but a LOT of sex scenes are like this.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 days ago

The kids who watched Titanic with their parents are growing up and making movies now

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Is the spike in the early 2000's from the cinematic masterpiece The Room? Three sex scenes in the span of like 15 minutes, ooh la la.

Seriously though, as much of a horndog I can be, I like the decline of random sex scenes in movies. Very rarely added anything to the story for me. I'm not a fan of violence, but fortunately it's not too hard to avoid.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Yeah, my bet is that sex used to be this thing you rarely see, so seeing it in a movie was this interesting event. Now we have access to more porn than you could possibly ever consume at your fingertips. Sex in movies used to sell a movie. Now I don't think anyone really cares.

Some people are seeing this and assuming sex has become more divisive so they stopped showing it. I'm almost certain it's the opposite. No one cares anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Jesus tap dancing christ.

WE HAVE PORN! INFINITE PORN!! 24/7 IN OUR POCKETS!!!

We used to find sex on film exciting, now if we get turned on we pause Netflix and hit the real stuff.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 days ago (1 children)

"I've I've been waiting for the right time to bring this up, but I feel like we need to address the elephant in the room, no?" . . . "where's the dong?"

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

They saved all the dongs for The Boys.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago (3 children)

My question would be how much of this is actors no longer being completely subjected to the gross wims of the director. How many scenes had little to do with a story and felt more like the director using the opportunity to make pretty people obey them.

We have intimacy directors now and what may also be happening is individuals having more say in production and in their bodily autonomy and I don't see that as an issue particularly.

Did random sex scenes really hit the level of art for you folks? Is pornography art the same way? 🤔 You know both are made for mass sale and consumption usually, the same way, much more than trying to make content to say anything.

But um "it so bad we block the titties!" or whatever is popular to say. Even though i personally don't remember many that added anything story related. Show me them bonding in a real way, sex doesn't cement anything if you've ever had a cheating partner, but a real collection of moments spent together between them that shows understanding and sacrifice for each other can really have an impact.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago

Sex scenes are goofy af

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Roughly correlates with the rate of decrease in people 18-30 having sex. I'm not sure of the order of influence there, or if there even is one, but it's possible the declining presence of sex in media is a result of it being less relatable for something like 30% more young people than previous generations.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (1 children)

https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/

Not just sex but the sexual tension/chemistry or whatever you wanna call it.

One example is Tobey Maguire and Kirsten Dunst in Spider-man trilogy vs Tom Holland and Zendaya in MCU movies. The former couple dated briefly but broke up before the production of second movie. Second one's are dating for almost 5 years (officially). Yet the Raimi movies have this chemistry that MCU movies lack. The relationship feels like checklist.

Another is Eva Green vs Lea Seydoux in Bond movies.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Is this what it feels like to be color blind and have people show you charts? Who the hell puts all the other comparison metrics in gray scale?

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago

It basically moved to TV instead. Wonder how that statistic compares if they're counted together.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Watching with your family kinda makes it awkward with some random sex scene out of nowhere.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

This chart makes me wonder about cigarette smoking specifically. It feels like if you looked back 40 years it would be a "U".

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