Envy (lemmy.world)
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[–] 131 points 2 years ago (11 children)
  • [–] 76 points 2 years ago* (7 children)

    People call stuff like Lemmy, 4chan or Reddit social media too but to me it's always these Facebook or Instagram style self-presentation platforms. All of them suck ass.

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  • [–] 42 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I'd categorize these as forums rather than social media. I mean there isnt that much socializing happening around here

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    True those are definitely worse

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    One thing I'm not a fan of is the argument that "it is what you make of it," because platforms act entirely differently depending on the other users, the algorithms, methods of interaction, interface, content and culture. Its very difficult for me to to have a good time on facebook because it fails in a lot of those aspects: toxic users, algorithms tbat push nonsense, a bad interface, incompatible content and culture. The general theme is that many social media sites end up being very polarizing and echo chambery.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    Communication is a good thing.

    But that's not what most social media facilitates. The mainstream platforms were about staying in touch with friends and family, once, but now they are about parasocial celebrity worship and broadcasting your life in a fake light of endless positivity. All the while secretly hating the habit of feigned contentment, never realising everyone else is doing the same.

    Social media could be about sharing our passions, forming real and meaningful connections with other individuals around the world, as well as truly coming to know ourselves as a species on a global scale.

    Some small parts of it are exactly that.

    Those are the parts I'm trying to perpetuate and nurture, and though they are a tiny part of the whole thing right now, it does mean it isn't all bad.

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  • [–] 96 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    I think this lesson can be valuable but I also feel like it can be flippant to the point of implying everyone's situation is equally bad or good, which is very dismissive of those in truly bad positions in life.

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  • [–] 95 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Comparison is the thief of joy

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  • [–] 62 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Nah that would be Bill, who stole my bottle of Joy when he house sat.

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  • [–] 41 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    buy it in bulk my dude, just use any ol squeeze bottle. Those bottles of Joy are easy come easy go

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  • [–] 92 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I too drive with my cellphone in one hand and my gut in the other.

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  • [–] 44 points 2 years ago

    Then it cuts to the dog using social media looking at skeletons.

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  • [–] 42 points 2 years ago

    sobbing over my phone because I couldn’t stop a friend from pairing full-bodied red wine with lobster

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  • [–] 34 points 2 years ago

    This is like that other comic about 'girls only like guys who treat them right' (i dunno the name) but actually good.

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  • [–] 31 points 2 years ago

    Grass is brown all the way around

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  • [–] 18 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    You know you're fucked up when seeing things that are happy makes you sad and angry.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago

    This hit me just right today. Good reminder to be grateful for what we have.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago

    One of these is not like the others

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    Ha yeah everybody is miserable.

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    [–] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    I find this sad yet soothing song very fitting.

    We all lost our hearts
    Trying to feel good

    Unkle - Persons & Machinery (feat. Autolux)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Oh is there a im14andthisisdeep instance now?

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