[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago

In the 2000s my elementary-school step-son wasn't allowed to walk, bike or skate to school. Also, they didn't get to keep a locker. Fuck teaching personal responsibility! 6-yo children, bent double with giant backpacks. All they needed were coolie hats to complete the slave motiff. All in all just a nother brick in the wall.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

Lotta women into that! But, uh, well... you gotta get to know them just a little bit first.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

If I were Dictator of the United States, I would get an expert panel together and publicly announce that we are going to exterminate every last motherfucking one of them, whatever the cost. Seriously, would make it a national campaign backed with fat federal dollars.

If you're in America, but not in the South, you cannot image what a pest/threat they are.

BTW OP, they got your happy ass because your steps vibrated their mound. And holy shit can they move fast when they sense a threat!

PRO TIP: Get bait that uses hydramethylnon. Yes, it's more expensive, but it's a nuclear bomb for these fuckers, WIDE blast radius. Use very sparingly, dab'll do ya.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

This won't help you, but I hope others take note. You need a lawyer, we all need legal representation. It's the difference between the rich and the poor, and being a victim in general.

I have LegalShield for $26/mo. (I think? Close enough.) Don't know if there are other legal insurance providers. I can pick up the phone anytime, leave a message with customer service, get a call back within an hour (maybe not on weekends?). Of course they'll want some documentation as to what's going on, unless it's a simple, straight question. And you get a legal opinion just like that! They'll write a letter or two as well as handling end-of-life docs. Probably a few other bits I don't care about.

If it's more serious, like my divorce and child custody (two events), it's 25% off. Do the math. 25% off several thousand covers quite a few months at $26.

I got royally fucked because my mother picked some damned lawyer to press our inheritance suit. FUCKED out of 10s of thousands. Would kill to do it all over again with a LegalShield lawyer. Not that they're top tier or anything, but they are answerable, unlike a private attorney who can just say, "Fuck you if you don't like it. Here's another invoice." My divorce attorney was shit, my custody attorney mopped the floor with my ex and her freebie lawyer. 🤷🏻

About to open two cases where my questions are, "Can they fucking do that?" and "Do I have any recourse here?" I don't know the answers. IANAL, but I can get one on the phone.

tl;dr: Be prepared for life to kick you around if you don't know your rights.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago

Walked those greens when I was around 19. Nothing but grass and the concrete outlines of sidewalks and home foundations. It was eerie and scary and solemn. That was in the 1990 or so, no idea what it's like now.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago

Grew up in Tulsa and we covered this in class. Of course it was called a riot and the true horror of it all was downplayed.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago

Never noticed that the logs fell off the side and bounced! The log would quickly slow and the car would still be hauling ass, right?

And for those of you scared of log trucks, nothing can make a log slide off the top while driving down the road. They are jammed on there with friction.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Let the onion flower! The flowers are delicious before they go to seed.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

Meotch is right. I'd add that after growing plants for 30+ years, I've just discovered how easily most things root in a glass of water. My secret sauce is rainwater.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago

Also, it's from the feminine French word for "beautiful". The masculine is beau. As in beautiful. :)

[-] [email protected] 11 points 7 hours ago

54 here and very tuned in. I think the disconnect is more a matter of wealth and socioeconomic status than age.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago

Same, but I only match real people, rarely pick up from fiction, well, not too much anyway, enough to get your drift.

I credit my success in customer service, on the phone and IRL, with this trait. For example, if a customer is wired up and going 100mph, they don't want some laid back or laconic dude seeming like he doesn't share their urgency.

Funny when I catch myself with the body language. Sometimes I look around and see others doing it. Sometimes I fuck with people and watch them imitate my body language. Did it with a date one time. Thought, "I think she's actually into me! Let's see." LOL, had her crossing and uncrossing her legs, leaning forwards and back, stuff like that.

tl;dr: I think it's typical human behavior, helps us get along together.

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Dumb question because I'm sure the answer is "hell nah". But maybe someone knows more than I.

I've got a night vision monocular, and it's pretty sweet for the price, much to recommend it. Problem is, the thing has such a small FOV that it's no fun, and certainly not practical. You can observe something if you hold very still, and so does the target. I got some infrared strobes off eBay, the kind that clip directly on a 9V battery. Thought they would make cool trail markers for unfamiliar woods. Nope. Again, the FOV is so tight you have to point right at them, even though they're intensely bright.

Another issue is that the screen brightness blinds your natural night vision. It has a lens cover with a pinhole in it that works well enough, but narrows the FOV even further.

Anyone tried the binocular version? I realize the range will be pretty short without carrying an infrared light that projects well. I can handle building that bit!

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LinkedIn damned near landed me a sweet job. They were ready to offer, but HR put their thumb on the scale for their guy. Just barely missed another this week from Indeed, think asking $60-$70K was too much for that place, and if so, fuck 'em, that was a serious lowball. Networked what little I could, don't know may people any more, and certainly not in tech.

What are your go-to places to job hunt?

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"A teenager described by his family as autistic remains in critical condition after being shot in his backyard by Idaho police last weekend. Video taken by a witness showed Pocatello police shooting the boy as he approached them with a knife from the other side of a chain-link fence."

Watch the video, went down exactly as described, except far worse.

This is what you're risking when you call the police. Here's my latest tale, probably be dead if I wasn't a middle-aged white guy:

https://old.lemmy.world/comment/16390613

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Had a Ukraine patch on my work belt and a customer piped up, "Slava Ukraine!" Caught me off guard, forgot I was wearing that! (It's on my phone holder, rear hip.)

She pronounced it: slah-vah you-crane. Reading it online, I thought it was: slah-vah you-crawn-i

Anyway, the look on her face was worth a million bucks, SO happy! Had a middle-aged guy and his son (grandson?) chat me up at Dollar General while wearing another patch. Both have the royal trident. Not disrespectful? Country boy trying to show support, not pretend who I'm not.

And I just learned: Heroiam slava! Little help with that as well?

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Been at a desk for 20-years, now at physical labor. Recently figured out that I'm running a serious caloric deficit, and I'm already a skinny fucker. Also, I'm aiming to build a little muscle and a lot of endurance. How do I eat?!

Back when I was working hard, ate tons of fast food. Too expensive and time consuming, don't want off the clock to go eat (hour round trip including eating). Took a 12-hour shift today and did OK sucking down granola bars, water and kratom, ate my wife's kickass meal when I got home.

What can I cook or bring to work to power me? What's simple and cheap and doesn't require much on-site prep? (We have a microwave, toaster, all that, I just want calories and protein in my face with no fuss). Afraid I'm half-ass cannibalizing myself.

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tl;dw: Autonomy, mastery and purpose is essential to happiness. Had all three, in spades, at a previous job. Left for double pay and benefits, total misery after losing them.

First time I watched, "Holy shit! He's about to talk about Linux!", and he did. "Hey! That's how Wikipedia works!", and it was.

I think on this every time I see comments about how someone isn't paid enough to give a shit, work harder. I was making $82K at my last job, miserable and struggled to understand what my damned problem was. Never knew employers existed that treated their people so well. Wife kept telling me I should be thankful, and I was! Yet I was deeply unhappy.

Now I'm driving a forklift and slinging mulch, satisfied as a pig in shit! Weird? I get it after internalizing this video.

  • Autonomy: If I see something that needs done, I jump on it. Don't need to ask the boss or get the team's consensus, I just fucking do it. I can look back and say, "I did that!" Nobody comes along and stops me, "Yeah, we don't really have to do that." Nope, I wanted to do that, proud of how it turned out.

  • Mastery: Sounds funny, but yes, I could spend a few years mastering all the fine details of this job. If I have nothing on my plate, I'm free to wander off and find someone that could use the help, learning more as I go. Getting better every day, feels good.

  • Purpose: Harder to define, but for me my purpose is to "move up". That means gaining the respect of my coworkers, maxing every raise, getting better shifts, getting promoted and generally doing what I want instead of being told. Already my managers trust me, not looking for work to assign, instead trusting me to find what needs done. Every manager I've met, bar none, started out on the bottom and worked their way up. The GM and one of the assistant managers were old IT guys that gave it up to throw rocks and guide people around lumber. One coworker told me I was one of two of the new hires he actually likes, rest are dipshits. Feels good.

Anyway, if you're unhappy with your job, or your personal life, give this video a shot. It's certainly not a "how to be happy" talk, but it shows much about what motivates us.

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Gaetz and Boebert in there twice, heysus.

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I've got 8 of these things, had them for a few years, never seen this weirdness.

Last time I charged it, it seemed fine until I turned it on. Now it's cycling through every mode; low -> high -> red -> red blinky. It's been doing this for 3 days! Had to shove it in my desk drawer because it's driving me nuts. No, it won't turn off.

Can't find any reference to this behavior. Ideas?

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Anyone know the details? I'll start a new one if I can.

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Insurance at my last company was so low, I'm not certain what it cost. $50mo. I think? When I started it was $35.

Let's do math. $20 every 3-months for a copay to get the doctor to re-up my prescription, $10 for the pills, $30 total. Add in whatever my employer paid for my part over 3-months, add in the doctor's cash-price difference. You get the idea.

And I probably could have found a way to cut the prescription price in half, or less. Ideas? That company Mark Cuban started? (Looks like it's $8.23/90-days there, haven't dug in on total price.)

Just learned about direct primary care, may jump on that if my new job doesn't cover insurance, or it isn't worth it. Thoughts on that?

Obviously I'm an American. You don't know how sad that made me to type. It's humiliating.

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