I don't see any reports of ableism,
Just check the modlogs of this comm for ableism bans.
I'm trying to work with you here but you aren't giving me anything to work with
Because I don't have any more patience for Hexbear-brand bad faith and manipulation and when I try to interact with y'all in good faith, I instantly regret it.
But fine, while I don't think you're planning to do anything and are just baiting me with good faith again, here's just one of the comments thread where I explicitly explained my autism coping mechanisms for a hexbear-swarmed thread like this, in good faith. This only led to gaslighting and bad faith assumptions, served with self-righteousness. Once I banned this user, at least 4 other hexbears doubled and tripled down on the same assumptions elsewhere in the thread, continuing to gaslight, goad, and just make out of whole cloth what's in my head. All of these upvoted by yet more hexbears as well.
Just in case it's still not clear:
- When a large hostile group invades the space of an autistic person and then gaslights them for the coping mechanisms they use to deal with that situation (after they explained it in good faith, no less). That's ableism.
- When an autistic person tries to disengage from a stressful situation a group put them in, and that group ridicules that act in order to goad their autistic compulsions to have them continue engaging and end up like a "lolcow" for them, that's ableism.
I cannot make this any more clear.
You're engaging in victim blaming. It's not my fault for not being proactive in the way you think is the best for myself when you community behaves like like trolls.
Victim blaming
Victim blaming and gaslighting.
Ableism doesn't just mean using the R-word. I explained why it was ableism. You now chose to ignore this completely, which means you're just covering up for ableism and their admin to boot, which just further reinforces why hexbear has an ableism problem, which is supported by the many ND people who have expressed stress interacting inside hexbear, even ND hexbears themselves.
So. you clearly were more than capable of going through all my comments to find the little tidbits you think support your bad faith interpretations, but supposedly couldn't do it to find the many places I called out hexbear ableism. That points out the deliberate manipulation you're engaging in. To answer you question, I disengage with libs just as much.
You're lying. They literally gaslit me and said my coping mechanism are actually a coverup for cowardice. I.e. they're goarding so that I disregard my coping mechanisms and engage in a mentally harming behaviour. You're now the 6th hexbear doubling down on ableism.
Victim blaming
Sorry I will not further engage with ableists and victim blamers, no matter how polite their bad faith and concern trolling arguments are written.