[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

edit: whoops I forgot about the incel conception of it, that if you're friendly to a woman she'll put you in the "unfuckable" box. Anyone who has dated a friend knows that just isn't true lol.

This is a struggle session tier controversial topic, but "friend zone" is what happens when

(a) you don't want to date someone, but are afraid to reject them completely. A lot of people soften the blow by saying "oh we can still be friends", in the lying polite way you'd say "we should hang out more!" before never following up on it. Especially prevalent among women, because men are dangerous, and especially prevalent when you don't want to rock the boat in a friend group. It's actually quite difficult to be friends with an ex or failed romantic prospect even if both people genuinely do want to be friends; you have to manage strong emotions without being able to directly change them.

(b) the rejected party either doesn't understand or refuses to accept the rejection. Classically, this leads to men trying to "win over" women who don't want them, and honestly probably don't even want to be friends now that the dude is being weird about it, while thinly pretending to just be a good platonic friend. Let me get that door for you mlady.

It's totally legit to want to date someone but not be "just friends" with them. It sucks to lose a friend that way, it's happened to me, but we're all adults here and sometimes people have enough friends already or don't want to be friends with you badly enough to deal with any additional heartache from working through those emotions.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago

what if I am a terminally online grass-starved labor aristokkkrat. what then, mr marx? joker-gaming

[-] [email protected] 39 points 2 years ago

lol as soon as I saw the numbered list my eyes almost involuntarily flicked upward to see what instance you were from.

You may not be aware, but this comm (/c/chapotraphouse) actually has a rule against this type of comment

[-] [email protected] 32 points 2 years ago

oh lemmy/blahaj are two separate things. a lemmy is a small mammal. a blajah is a small shark. both cute, easy to confuse

[-] [email protected] 39 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Actual communists

holding office or gaining seats

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Communist_revolution

[-] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

You know, now that we have a block button I don't see the need for "disengage" anymore.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 2 years ago

Omg somebody sent a transphobic response and I missed it? I'm a true ally now somebody come give me my cookie and Lenin medal

[-] [email protected] 64 points 2 years ago

Lol I got to the forced labor part and immediately looked up to see what instance you were from. I love federation

[-] [email protected] 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

see pee see bots

[-] [email protected] 30 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Guess what isn't really regulated in any way? Militias.

this is not true. at least in my state, forming a militia and marching with rifles outside your workplace is quite illegal and will get you v&d

20 ILCS 1805:

It is unlawful for any body of men or women, other than the regularly organized militia of this State, troops of the United States, [and fuddy veterans orgs], to associate themselves together as a military company or organization, to drill or parade with arms in this State, except as hereinafter authorized; but, by and with the consent of the Governor, [private militias approved by the governor] and [military academies].

If you want to use your gun rights for spectacular purposes Black Panthers style, you have to actually know the law like they did. Please read your specific state's laws before you do anything in this area, there are probably lots of pitfalls.

Georgetown law:

All 50 states prohibit private, unauthorized militias and military units from engaging in activities reserved for the state militia, including law enforcement activities.

[-] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

hey in the right circles you have leftist "movie to sell Mattel merch" vs liberal "feminist movie" discourse. I haven't seen the movie, I have too many opinions as it is

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I happen to be reading Behind the Fog and Oppenheimer approved all sorts of human experimentation programs under "radiological weapons" programs: rather than a bomb, using radioactive materials to poison people. To figure out how to do that, US scientists injected plutonium and other radioactive substances into civilians without their consent, to study how fast the poisons would be excreted and what they would do to the subjects. Sometimes it was expected that this would kill the victims. They also did some direct tests with neutron beams on (usually) terminally-ill patients.

Although the military said that the program was interested in area denial ("nobody can use this factory or they'll get sick") a lot of these applications are obviously civilian-only.

Does Nolan include anything on that? Or is it just him totally not realizing this bomb was gonna be used on the working class, I swear bro?

edit: to be clear the US did far more extensive radiological tests on US civilians through the 60s, Oppenheimer just wasn't around for the later stuff. Behind the Fog is primarily about when they dumped lots of radioactive dust into poor parts of St. Louis to see what would happen to the people there. Fun for the whole family!

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Asking binary mirror since there were so many comments on CthulhusIntern's post abt men.

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when I saw the logo on the hood I literally guffawed. these folks are the reason we need "do not eat" labels on silica gel packets

https://www.amazon.com/gp/customer-reviews/R1NBZQ64WOBX7Q

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