[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago

Twitter isn't and never was useful as an organizing tool. Arab spring was a failure. Twitter is actually more useful to the ruling class than not because it gives a way for the masses to expend it's restless energy without changing anything.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago

I use vanilla gnome. Dead simple, no nonsense, gets out of my way. Perfect DE for me.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago

What I dislike about these threads is that it always devolves into shitting on blue collar workers. Of course pickups are useless city cars but have you all ever met somebody from a town of 1,000 people where every single person works in a blue collar trade? These things do work that you can't do in a different type of vehicle.

Threads like this are echo chambers of privilege. Maybe instead of shitting on tradespeople, shit on car and oil companies who enshittify the whole system.

Also pickups in 2023 that look like this are more powerful and more fuel efficient than more modest looking pickups from 90s or 00s. You may not like the aesthetics of it, but who fucking cares, you're not driving it, you're just the one judging someone else for having different taste.

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A master class in close reading, and a towering analysis of novelist Thomas Pynchon. Really good piece for being an essay published in a relatively laid-back periodical.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago

Many things are outside of your control. You were given life outside of your control, and you will die outside your control. Whether you die of cancer at 50 or climate change at 50, you die all the same.

We still have a moral duty to make the best choices that we can with the information that we know. A lot of the existential crisis though, I think, stems from a fear of mortality. Coming to grips with the fact that you must die sets you free to act rightly within the world.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 15 points 2 years ago

You definitely added more than zero value! I begin to feel more and more that for a high percentage of my generation (born post-2000), learning how to navigate social networks IRL wasn't a skill we learned. There's a generational atrophy when it comes to organizing parties and mixers and social activities larger than your closest friends.

One of the things I'm trying to break down in my friend group is the apathy towards mixing different groups of friends. Like we think different communities won't be able to get along with each other, and there is a paralyzing fear of any kind of social awkwardness. This also likely has to do with the friends I've made over the years, as someone who has struggled greatly with social anxiety I think I've naturally selected for groups of socially anxious people. Ack.

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submitted 2 years ago by SlamDrag@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org

Hello friends, if you'll allow me, I would like to rant for a moment about the state of dating in an urban setting.

I don't want to immediately say things were better decades ago, but as someone who is monogamous, vanilla, just wants a steady partner, it feels impossible to date with the current apps. I am in hobby groups, I'm on Bumble, Hinge etc., I meet new people. Yet I can't seem to find anyone. I'm despairing friends, I'm despairing.

I feel like I'm picking people off an algorithm. The room for surprise and delight has been cut off. Now there is only space for cold hard data. Lots of pretty people with good education and it's so hard to see them as people and not just another part of an ever growing list. Another dot in the scatter plot.

People who are in LTRs, how'd you find your partner? What keeps you together?

Other single folk, how are you finding dating to be in your current locale? What things have brought success or failure in your mind? How do you define success or failure?

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 25 points 2 years ago

I don't care if it passes SCOTUS or not. I say this as someone with current student loans, what matters most is directing that money towards public institutions to drive down tuition for students right now.

Forgiving student debt doesn't solve the problem, it just pushes it onto the next generation. Let's actually solve the tuition crisis first.

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The rock climbing community has long found itself at odds with park rangers. Very rarely intentionally! But today there is a silent battle between a small group of climbers trying to reform the wilderness act to allow fixing permanent anchors to rock in the wilderness.

The use of fixed anchors, also called bolting, makes routes far more accessible to the average sport climber. Without fixed anchors, climbers must build their own removable anchors on the wall as they climb (called "trad climbing"). This is difficult enough that the majority of climbers won't do it, only the dedicated few. While fixed anchors in themselves do not have an environmental impact, any route that gets bolted in the wilderness will undoubtedly see a large increase in human activity that would harm the local flora and fauna. The Protect America's Rock Climbers act is a misnomer at best, lie at worst. There are already hundreds of bolted rocks within the US, with more than enough sport climbing to last anyone a lifetime. Furthermore, if anyone wishes to climb in the wilderness, they are allowed to, provided they are dedicated enough to climb it in the trad style. It is far more important to protect the wilderness that we have left than it is to create a few more pretty rock climbing routes.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago

Okay but what I'm getting at is why does OpenSIL make them hardware irrelevant? I'm not a programmer, I don't know why a firmware library matters at all in this case, can you explain that to me?

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submitted 3 years ago by SlamDrag@beehaw.org to c/food@beehaw.org

New Hoffman video dropped. Not sure if we have any 3rd wave coffee lovers in this community. I've been an avid AeroPress user for about two years now and it will be interesting to see where the company goes, though it will likely not affect me as this thing feels nigh indestructible and I can likely use it for ten years with no issues.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 19 points 3 years ago

Everyone is already giving the generic advice of do hobbies or volunteer. This is good advice! That's how you meet people. But the transition from "hobby" friend to "life" friend is difficult and frankly just awkward. It's kind of like romantic relationships, there isn't a right or wrong way. You just got to take leaps of faith and be vulnerable with people with the expectation that rejection is possible.

I'm still kind of navigating this phase. I have some good friends that I do my hobbies with, and then it's like, how do I go from there? Really it's just about being open and hospitable towards others. Opening your home and inviting people in, asking people if they want to come over for dinner or watch a movie with you.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 7 points 3 years ago

Planning to go out to the local state park and look for good boulders to climb. My goal for this summer is to transition from indoor to outdoor bouldering.

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submitted 3 years ago by SlamDrag@beehaw.org to c/writing@beehaw.org

Do you set aside a time each day to write? Do you write five pages stream of consciousness then trim it down into something that makes sense? Are you a planner? Do you write in a notebook? Do you write once, edit once? write twice, edit once? Write once, edit thrice?

I don't have a consistent process. I've been experimenting with writing in a basic markdown editor, maybe 500 words at a time, then stringing together multiple entries as best I can. What I find is I have lots of ideas and thoughts that are separate, and critical to my ability to form complex thought is correlating multiple seemingly unrelating things, which then creates a new more complicated and hybrid whole. I can't sit down and write 5,000 words on one thing, but I can write 500 words on ten things, and then use that as the basis of a mosaic piece that (when edited well) comes together into a unique whole.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 15 points 3 years ago

Getting into fediverse platforms has been a godsend. Talking to real people and not dealing with the high percentage of bots is incredible.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 7 points 3 years ago

This is crux of the issue. The whole websites interface is structured around ads. If you pay to get rid of them, it's still structured around ads from its most basic level, so much so that simply getting rid of them doesn't fundamentally change the experience.

[-] SlamDrag@beehaw.org 16 points 3 years ago

Reddit frequently pops up when I look for answers to tech questions.

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