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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

FAQ

I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

What can I post?

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Previous thread is over here.

I forgot to update this yesterday since I was at work.

As usual: no crackers allowed.

Here, you can:

vent

chat

gush

inquire

etc.

about, well, anything, ig.

Bonus discussion question:

What are your favorite books about BIPOC and EM people?

Could be about individuals, a few individuals, or a social history (or, well, everything having to do with EM_BIPOC peoples).

Mine is kind of a "basic opinion" but it's:

An Indigenous Peoples' History of the United States by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz.

Read it right when it came out.

And I knew it was going to be a "classic" (or, at least, on many peoples' "to-read" lists).

Of course, I'm an obscurist, sort-of. I recommend more obscure works, but this one really stood out to me back when it first came out. I had a professor that also recommended the book and had us all read it in class. I believe they were Apache.

On the topic of "obscure" works, I would recommend Henry Winston's Strategy for a Black Agenda, which is my favorite work on such topics as Pan-Africanism and violence vs. non-violence (and whether and how to use both or when).

Anyway, take care!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

I think I need to rage and vent in an extreme and I'm fighting everything I've been taught about being a calm and polite black person.

I'm activity trying to find a healthy outlet, but I'm also annoyed with the racism that shames people of color for having complex emotions. I think I'm going to try to shout and vent in my car, but I've got fear that someone will overhear and call the cops or whatever.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That sounds fucking terrifying, especially that last part.

But I getcha. I'm not Black, but during school, at least, I felt trapped and judged, you know?

My therapist was also racist to me (at least one of 'em that I had before I moved on to the next).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Thanks, I think you can totally relate to having your emotions policed by racists. It's rough though then it's a therapist. You're paying them to be on your side and they couldn't even manage that.

It sucks to struggle, but I hope we can find some peace with it soon.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Thank you, and yeah, it can be hard when the ones you need on your side... aren't.

Well, I got a good therapist now (and one who is Autistic like me) so that helps. Honestly, that definitely helped me out a bunch. I think that was half the battle, even.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Go for a drive on the freeway and yell about whatever. I do that!

Most people don't notice as you zoom by and, even if they do, you're in the freeway and you zip by. It's a good place to vent. Just don't go too fast and keep your eyes on the road.