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[-] dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 77 points 2 years ago

Is there a difference between sealioning and just asking for verification of a bold claim? On a forum such as Lemmy, where people are encouraged to have unsolicited debate in the comments, are we by nature immune from the worst aspects of sealioning?

[-] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 107 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

There is. Sealioning is when you know damn well your position is wrong or otherwise odious, but rather than confront that point (or come right out and say it) you instead pester the other party incessantly to support every single little claim they make with the usually unspoken implication that everyone should think those claims are false.

The difference is that individuals engaging in Sealioning are not doing so in good faith, and the acid test comes about pretty quickly they they don't address or digest any of the points you've supported with evidence/sources and instead move the goalposts immediately and pivot to quibbling about something else and demanding a source for that, instead.

Another Sealioning trick is to fixate on something you said or take it out of context, build a straw man of your argument, and demand evidence/sources for the argument you did not technically make -- ideally, a straw man argument that is deliberately unsupportable, or is attacking a matter of your opinion and not a fact but treating it as if it should be supported by citations and evidence. E.g., I don't like Metallica because I think Lars Ulrich is a douchebag. Sealion: "Excuse me, but can you provide a source attesting to Lars Ulruch personally being a douchebag to you?" No, I just don't like him because he rubs me the wrong way plus the whole Napster thing back in the day. "Well, since you have not addressed my polite request for a source attesting to Lars Ulrich personally being a douche to you, [ignoring the supportable claim about the Napster thing] your opinion about not like Metallica is obviously laughably absurd [and therefore you are deserving of the ridicule and inserts I am about to heap on you, or will direct others to make at you]." Etc.

[-] livus@kbin.social 35 points 2 years ago

Spot in. And then there's the concern trolling, "it's important that you provide evidence for your disturbing claims about Lars Ulrich because otherwise you discredit the #metoo movement".

[-] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 years ago

None of that is demonstrated in the comic, it's a bad example.

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

Yep, pretty much.

I've been accused of Sealioning for literally sourcing one claim... with five different sources... Just one claim.

I don't have time to go through 5 different sources! Quit Sealioning!

It's not sealioning...

Quit gish galloping then!

Guys... providing multiple sources for your argument isn't a fallacy. It's literally just sourcing your fucking claims lmfao.

[-] daltotron@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Ahh, the fallacy fallacy, ironically the most common fallacy I encounter online.

[-] PinkOwls@feddit.de 14 points 2 years ago

To add one more aspect: When someone writes a reply asking for a source, did they actually do a short Google-search related to the claim? It basically takes the same time to just look at the summary of the search results as asking for a source. So I assume if someone asks for verification for an easily searchable fact, then they are acting in bad faith.

Also one more thing: If you notice someone acting in bad faith, don't engage with them. Downvote them, move on. This is especially true for the next few months until the US elections are over. You will notice it a day after the elections that the quality of discussions will increase because the bad faith actors will take a vacation. What happened on Reddit in 2016 is happening here right now.

[-] federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world 20 points 2 years ago

When someone writes a reply asking for a source, did they actually do a short Google-search related to the claim?

no one is responsible for supporting our argument except you.

[-] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I feel the same. If you are making claims with no source people should be allowed to ask for the source without needing to look themselves.

[-] PDFuego@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

Exactly. If I ask someone for a source on something I feel is wrong it's because I specifically want to know the information they're working from. If I look it up straight away and send them a link that says they're wrong straight out of the gate they aren't even going to open it.

[-] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Do you have any evidence supporting your position that this is the proper way to debate a sealion?

[-] Nepenthe@kbin.social 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

To add one more aspect: When someone writes a reply asking for a source, did they actually do a short Google-search related to the claim? It basically takes the same time to just look at the summary of the search results as asking for a source. So I assume if someone asks for verification for an easily searchable fact, then they are acting in bad faith.

This point rubs me a little wrong both on the basis that

A) onus of proof falls on the one making the claim

B) if it takes the same amount of time to find the answer as it took for them to ask you, then logically it takes the same amount of time to include a source for anyone that wants further reading as it would to make them look for it

and (most importantly)

C) you can find pretty much anything on the internet if you've got 12 minutes to dedicate to looking through all the clickbait.

The result becomes that I can say any batshit thing I want to and now it's your job to discredit your own stance for me, and if you aren't convinced, you aren't googling hard enough. Instead of just asking and finding out I got it from The Onion, which I would naturally be very against having to say out loud.

[-] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

If you notice someone acting in bad faith, don’t engage with them

I find that relentless mockery is the best way of countering a sealion. Don't cede the field to them. But also don't get drawn into a bad faith argument. Just insult and make fun of them until they leave.

[-] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 years ago

That just feeds their persecution complex and their argument that "You don't have any rebuttal, just insults!"

Don't get into a drawn out conversation with them, but a field of people giving simple responses pointing out the obvious flaws it what they are saying drowns out their message to any outside observer and shows why they are incorrect.

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[-] magnetosphere@kbin.social 7 points 2 years ago

When I’m not sure, I just give them the benefit of the doubt. For example, there’s a good chance that the person replying to me speaks English well, but it’s not their first language. Also, their cultural norms might be very different from my own. It could be a simple misunderstanding, too. Overreacting would just make things worse.

When it’s obvious that the person replying is just being a pedantic nuisance, though, I merely stop responding. They may think they’ve “won”, but so what? I can go to bed knowing I don’t waste my time sealioning.

[-] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

They may think they’ve “won”, but so what?

The point of internet arguments is not to convince your opponent. That never happens.

The point is to convince the audience, and if you just leave then it looks like the sealion is right.

[-] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 8 points 2 years ago

When the comment chain goes on long enough, there is no more audience.

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Depends. If it's a subject I feel strongly about I'll go down the whole damn chain upvoting and downvoting as applicable.

[-] Sotuanduso@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

Addendum: when a comment chain goes on long enough in both length and time since the original post, there is no more audience.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

One of the things I miss about forum threads sorted by most recent comment

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[-] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

That would be a draw imo

[-] Leeker@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

The point of internet arguments is not to convince your opponent. That never happens.

Why do you think that is?

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[-] livus@kbin.social 5 points 2 years ago

The thing is a true sealion only "wins" by dragging you into a long offtopic comment chain.

Professional sealions (we don't have them here yet thank god) come armed with a list of "talking points" they use to try to derail genuine conversations and turn them into something else.

[-] magnetosphere@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Damn, that’s sad. I have nothing but pity for anyone who considers themselves a “true” or “professional” sea lion.

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[-] daltotron@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

They may think they’ve “won”, but so what?

Yeah, I think this is kind of the correct mentality. The currency of trolls is (you)s, you should only feed trolls if they're giving you something actually interesting or novel or amusing in return, rather than getting baited, or giving up and ignoring it altogether. I think it's important for people to reward comments that they like with thought-out responses, rather than the other way around.

[-] livus@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yeah there's a difference. @dual_sport_dork described it well.

But no we're not 100% immune from it. I've seen a few people try to do it.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Is there a difference between sealioning and just asking for verification of a bold claim?

Depends if the person wants to answer or avoid the question. If they want to avoid it, you're sea lioning.

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