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So I just discovered that I have been working next to the waste of oxygen that raped my best friend several years ago. I work in a manufacturing environment and I know that you can't fire someone just for being a sex offender unless it directly interferes with work duties (in the US). But despite it being a primarily male workforce he does work with several women who have no idea what he is. He literally followed a woman home, broke into her house, and raped her. Him working here puts every female employee at risk. How is that not an unsafe working environment? How is it at even legal to employ him anywhere where he will have contact with women?

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[–] [email protected] 89 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (78 children)

How are you expecting him to feed himself if he can't work anywhere? There's no such thing as a men's only work place.

I agree that rape should be charged with the same severity as taking a life. But we also need to let ex felons leave that in the past if they can. There's a lot of abuse and oppression that results from permanent shunning. We made the choices in our justice system that we made because of history. Let's not repeat the mistakes of history.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (30 children)

I respectfully disagree. Murder is not at the same level as rape. Rape is awful and despicable, but at least you're alive to recover from it.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 8 months ago (8 children)

That's the thing, many people never recover from rape.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I think more people don't recover from death compared to rape

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm not arguing that lol. But many people would literally rather be killed than raped and it's frequently cited as one of the things, "worse than death".

It should absolutely be punished similarly.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago (2 children)

That sounds like a great way to make all rapists murderers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

No. There's a psychological barrier to killing, even in the mind of a criminal. That's why most murders are actually people who knew each other and had enough emotion to overcome that barrier or people who were scared/abused enough that the barrier was no longer there. (It goes away as a defense mechanism)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago
  1. Many is not anywhere near all.

  2. That is an option for the victim in a rape still, there is no option for the victim in a murder.

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