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I...struggle with myself. We like each other but there is so much self hatred that we have to be careful not to accidentally denigrate each other or suppress the other. She's a protector and because of that it can be hard to even get her to come out except in stressful situations where I black out entirely and she take over. She's so much more vengeful than I so it's a constant battle to not push people away in those situations, even if they want to help. Regardless, we are very thankful for each other. Makes life a lot less lonely.
(sends virtual hugs!) :)))
the denigration and suppression is real....... I have done that on purpose for years and it has definitely done a lot more harm than good hahahah
though I myself have never experienced a black out...... all experiences are fascinating aren't they?
I am glad for the less lonely aspect! I should talk to my headmates more but....... after so long of deliberate separation and such,,,,,, I guess I will try to be less of an ass to everyone in the brain central haha
Our experiences are fascinating yes lol, but I'd prefer to not emotionally traumatize my love ones to the point they even forget being traumatized 😭
It takes a lot of work but being nicer to yourselves is totally worth
Also thank you for the virtual hugs I invested them and I'll send you the profits