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[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Once it pops, the fun definitely stops

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Cultural differences always trip me. I spent most of my middle/high school years in the Caribbean and the attitude among guys was that the first orgasm didn't count and was in fact just the start of the session. There was almost a hurry to "pop" the first one so the real fun could begin.

EDIT: It looks like I misunderstood the comment. Derp.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I think he was saying that if the condom pops the fun stops. Presumably because then you're worried about STDs, pregnancy, and so on.

But yes, it is funny that the American sex stereotype of men is that that they finish once, quickly, and are then done. Being in more sex positive spaces, the attitude is closer to "orgasms are nice but not the whole point."

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Oooohhh, yeah. A popped condom would definitely stop the fun. That make more sense than how I read it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

If it ripped why stop your already committed at that point. Just tell them and plan accordingly.

Not like you can reverse time