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Oh crap this is like some kind of Socratic Method isn't it. I need to try this, though sometimes I think folks can enjoy the whiff of their own farts too much and become emboldened.
Did you find it worked especially well with certain people or certain personalities?
my personal experience with that method is that it works for a huge swath of people, but you gotta have nearly saintlike patience
Patience, it's a virtue right? Something to work on...
It's works even better with racist jokes. Make them deconstruct how fucked up what they just said is.
Huh? Fried chicken and orange 'drank'? What's a 'drank'? I don't get it.
"You know, how black people are, like..."
I don't get joke. Can you explain it to me?
Yeah, thanks for the advice.
As an aside, what you wrote (mostly the "huh") made me think of this and I can't stop laughing.
They absolutely can - so if it is someone who literally doesn't think about what they're saying at ALL, then in my experience the method only really is useful if you want to entertain yourself with a few hours of insane conversation. However, if the person is going to consider what's coming out of their mouth even a little bit then usually it can work. I wouldn't recommend it for a like your local sidewalk preacher because they're probably too entrenched, but that dipshit cousin/coworker you barely know and talk to once a year? It'll probably work on them.
Like Thordros said - it works best with things like racist jokes or just ignorant statements that you can force them to sit there and deconstruct. You do have to either have patience or a great poker-face - I've found that sometimes, especially when doing it to friends/relatives, that smiling and whatnot will clue someone in & make them shut down the conversation.
Noted, appreciate the advice, hope to put it to practice.