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White Gay Men Are Hindering Our Progress as a Queer Community (www.them.us)
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But even some progressive gay white men say they feel alienated from a movement they see becoming more radical, particularly online, where the tenor of conversation is often uncivil.

Hot take: I'm honestly, vocally sick of settler-gay men who demand that you handle them with kid gloves when their entire existence within the community is an existence blanketed in microaggression at best, when they're not being outright full-on macroaggressive about someone that 'doesn't fit their "preference"'; and I'm genuinely glad people are starting to talk about it.

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[-] [email protected] 30 points 2 years ago

They do hate it when you speak up for yourself, kinda like how misogynistic men in general seemed to hate it when women spoke up for themselves. Hmmm...

[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago

Yeah but cis women generally don't immediately start getting treated like a man so it's extra special.

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