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It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

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I’m curious because I noticed the medication I’m currently on helps me emotionally regulate myself but doesn’t prevent me from thinking about how it still sucks.

I’m trying my damndest to reframe how I think about things. God is it hard though 😮‍💨

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I’m still hung up on two rejections from 6 months ago 💀 it’s wild though because I just suddenly started caring about it again randomly? I hate it

I personally freak out when my supervisor changes his tone to somewhat negative because I think it means I’m about to get fired, I take it personal when someone says “no” to me in any context, etc

Hell, even I have a hard time rejecting people

I am unwell

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I was like that all my life. I'm very lucky the medication I was put on worked for me like a miracle first try. I mean, rejection still sucks, but that's normal. I don't avoid it all costs anymore. I wish medications worked the same for everyone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

Yeah most people I know can acknowledge it sucks and just move on. Wish I had that power

The medication I take has greatly improved my life in other areas but not this one for some reason