These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you'd consider yourself "kinky".

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[–] 3 points 3 days ago

A fetish is something you NEED in order to get off or enjoy sex. So a guy who can't get it up unless the lady is wearing lingerie (or unless he is) that's a lingerie fetish.

If you enjoy sex more with lingerie but can still enjoy without it, that's a lingerie kink.

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