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Or plan to get one some day? It was a big thing with my parents, but I've never seen them in anyone else's homes.

It is just one of those "Boomer" things nowadays?

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[-] Chozo@fedia.io 6 points 1 day ago

My mom still has all of her mom's old china from when she passed. It fills up an enormous, ugly, heavy cabinet that eats up a pretty significant chunk of the living room and doesn't go with any of the other decor. I have never, in my nearly 40 years of existence, seen her use a single piece of it. It was always "for special occasions", but we always went out for special occasions, so they still never got used.

I think she only keeps them because they were important to her mom, who inherited some of it from her mom, and possibly even further up the chain. I don't think they're even worth anything; she could maybe get a couple hundred bucks if she were to sell the whole collection, maybe a bit more if she got creative with the listing. There were times growing up where we were dirt broke and couldn't even afford soap to wash a dish and ate dinner off of paper towels, and she still wouldn't let anyone use the china. But it was important to those before her, so I think my mom just wants to preserve it in their memory.

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