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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by Dort_Owl@hexbear.net to c/neurodiverse@hexbear.net

There was a recent wrecker post that did this a lot. It comes across as reactionary to me but sometimes I see leftists doing it too. Nerd culture being associated with being childish/nostalgic and easily exploited by sanitised consumption, etc.

As an autistic person who sometimes gets hyperfixations that could be seen as childish, it feels gross to have people paint these hobbies as some kind of uniquely hyperconsumerist thing, because 90% of the time it's just because the hobby is seen as childish and/or neurodivergent coded.

For example: I was hyperfixated on gardening for a while. It was expensive, really hard to do ethically and the industry itself is massively corporate and responsible for some of the biggest environmental problems today. It's a nice little escapist hobby where you can turn your mind off while you pretend you aren't fucking up your local biome because Monsanto decided it would sell more soil wetter, plant disease cures and fertilizer ifs product kills the soils ability to self regulate. I tried to do it the organic permaculture way, ended up being too expensive and half of the products were not in fact as ethical as they pretended to be. Also I have a degree in Ecology, most gardners don't have that luxury and are not trained how to garden ethically. Never once have I ever seen anyone call gardening a vapid corporate hobby or expressed concern that I was using my fake little biome to escape from the real world. Never once have I been lumped in with the same people who invented DDT. Because it's a socially acceptable hobby for a well adjusted adult to have.

I can't say the same for when I had a Pokemon hyperfixation. It was a relatively cheap hobby, I mostly just played the games and the rom hacks were fun. But I stopped because who wants to be associated with grown ass adults waiting in line for cards and playing a childrens game! They must be mentally ill in some way, right? Now adults who still like a hobby they grew up with get put into the same camp as Harry Potter fans, who we have apparently now have decided are bad because Harry Potter is childish and whimsical, not because the writer is a racist transphobe.

Just something that mulls over in my head sometimes, because social dynamics that make no sense to me are another thing I like to fixate on and dissect for fun. I tend to see how the flow of popular narratives can manipulate people into adopting reactionary talking points. All you have to do is trojan something onto a socially acceptable target without outright saying the target and you have even leftists redirected to attack a target that the right want dead. People are funny.

Thanks for reading my weird rant. I could just be coming across as insecure and making myself an easy target for wreckers to get a rant from, but eh who cares if I get a reputation as someone easily baited by this subject. Someones gotta deconstruct this kind of thing so it might as well be me.

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[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes, I don't mean 'literally in the military'. I do agree that the "trans drone pilot" thing is slightly wild as an idea. And we do have a ton of trans people here, it sure as fuck beats the shark instance. I didn't refuse to notice, I'm one.

Yes, i get it, the majority of trans people are social democrats and progressive liberals well gues what the majority of cis people in my country are literally Super Hitler.

Germany che-smile what a classic.

More than the political leaning broadly, or working for shitass elevator companies or military support or anything though, I was thinking about how startlingly fuckin' racist white trans people can be. Pretty harrowing thread if you ask me. And I know, twitter, bsky, but these are people that exist in real life.

You can show MLs and MLMs literally one trans girl working for Thyssen-Krupp and they lose their shit and talk about how being trans is a bourgeois Western concept that you can't expect working class people from the global South to be normal

Funny enough the MLs asserting that you can't expect working class people from the global south to be normal is a pretty bad take in and of itself. I hate to see the "queerness is bourgeois" take but when I think about Brand Israel, that kind of makes me feel ill. Not that it makes the take correct obviously.

We never get the grace of that being seen as a personal failure that cis people get granted by default,

Can't say I disagree that we never get any benefit of the doubt, yeah. All kinds of spaces are always chomping at the bit to have a turn bullying trans women.

"well, cis privilege literally makes it more likely that you are a lib or worse"

I like saying this because it's true, as it's true of all identities that the imperial core privileges. Cis people, cishet people specifically, neurotypicals, white people. I do think that more than being the "assumed default", a "NATO straight" is just the default in NATO broadly. As in, yeah, it's a cishetero patriarchal white supremacist project. So I guess it's more notable when "minorities" support it. Not that I don't think cis leftists over-expose trans people in empire, but y'know.

I think in short, I just don't have the same inherent faith in the revolutionary character of trans people as you do. We're just people, it's a bit like any other identity in that you don't get "more revolutionary" just for being trans.

I think in short, I just don't have the same inherent faith in the revolutionary character of trans people as you do.

I do not. I think revolutionaries are the exception in every demographic, i just think that trans people are more likely than anybody else to be that exception. It's the same as with being left handed, that correlates massively with queerness and particularly with transness. But that does not mean left handed people are a majority in trans spaces, or that trans people are a majority of left handed people.

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

Well alright, I wish I felt the same. Maybe trans people do lean left more often, but in my experience I've seen a lot of unexamined biases, is all.

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