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submitted 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) by IEatCeleryAt7Degrees@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I swear, when someone's talking to me now, I can barely understand what's happening. I know I'm no spring chicken anymore but I wish I was 16 again lol when I experience things it's like it's a memory or like I'm at the back of my head. It's hard to explain. Every thing here is getting gradually worse over the years. Suffice to say, I'm not looking forward to my 40's..

That being said I feel like I'm making a big deal out of something most women my age just get on with and put up with for the rest of their lives without complaining

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[-] towerful@programming.dev 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I dunno if you want a reply from a guy.
I am on meds that have some wild side effects, I know what they are and I can deal with them on small amounts.
At no point have I dealt with more than 2 of them at once.
At no point are they any where near anything you have described.
If they were, I would complain and hopefully change meds or change doctor.

You need to continue getting help.
You need to get medical help. Professional help. Not Fediverser.

Some of these may be "normal" (I dunno, I ain't a gal), but all together they are not. And they are affecting your life , so SOMETHING is wrong.
You have enough of a list (as well as enough conviction to argue against the popular comments)... Sounds like you have enough evidence and conviction to find a doctor that can actually help you.
Keep trying, keep working to get help.

Hypochondria is still a medical condition, it can still be treated.
But I don't believe (not a doctor) it actually transverses physical conditions like back pain and vomiting.
So maybe it's both? Mental health is still medical.

Seriously, don't give up of actual qualified medical help. Keep trying, keep going until you are happy.
This is key: keep going until you get the help you need

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