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Anyone else try to show Lemmy to their friends only for the wrong side of Lemmy to scare them off? (sh.itjust.works)

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My friend's on reddit a lot, uses it for support questions and reviews mostly, but got fed up with the bullshit toxicity there.

A few days ago I suggested she check out Lemmy, there's less content, but generally fewer toxic communities and we scrolled a bit.

She checked it out, didn't understand a meme on WomensStuff, had me ask them about it, and was so put off by their responses that was the end of lemmy for her.

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[-] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

What does "the wrong side of lemmy" consist of?

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago

Women.

[-] Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I'd have expected a .ml type of thing. Cringe. I don't know the lore behind this user but I'm guessing they were being a prick in womensstuff and this is now trolling/bait.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

You would be correct.

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