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Modern dating seems like a nightmare and I don't got the energy for it. Plus, I'm increasingly totally content being single. Most seriously relationships I've been in just turned into stressful nightmares before ending. Not being horny is just making it easier.

I'm def not Ace, I like sex, enjoy my memories of having sex, and still get a little horny sometimes, but I think I'll be totally happy if I never get laid again. As cringe as this sounds but my hand is a good enough companion when the mood takes me.

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[-] culpritus@hexbear.net 16 points 14 hours ago

Self reliance is a virtue normally. I think sex can be pretty great when the two people involved are doing it in a comradely way, but it seems that's not often the case unfortunately, especially in societies dominated by capital.

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