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They didn't shame anyone, they said they didn't understand their reasoning for doing it.
They literally led by throwing shame unto OP.
That's how they opened their response.
It is not sad. Suggesting it is sad is a "gatekeeper-ass thing" to say.
Saying something is sad isn't shaming it. It's saying it makes you sad. Which can be caused by whatever depending on the purpose. You wouldn't say someone expressing that at a funeral was shaming the deceased would you?
I think your life is sad.
Let me know how you took that.
Welcoming? Adversarial?
Well, I'd say you're right, but I don't know how you could have enough information about me to make such a determination just from this short conversation.
Right. And nor does Jason have enough info on OP.
So it comes across, as I said, as a "gatekeeper-ass" thing to say in the context of OPs journey to self hosting.
Where they are is in no way "sad". Except if you're being an adversarial gatekeeper dick about purity.