I've gamed on a secret weed farm deeeep in the woods. The networking is a little iffy sometimes, but even with our current infrastructure it can be done. We had an electric water heater, TV, full kitchen, and game consoles, half an hour's hard hike and half an hour's drive to the general store in summer (more complex in winter), a couple hours to the nearest town. Latency spikes happened, weather happened, but the internet was there. We never had to go out for fruit or veggies, but didn't grow our own grains/carbs, and didn't have any meat/dairy animals.

You don't need to live by a script. Figure out the life you want. As long as it doesn't fuck with anyone else, you deserve it.