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[–] 83 points 2 months ago (7 children)

So after he lost he committed to losing? What would you call someone like that?

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  • [–] 61 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    an Incel. The manosphere lures them in by making all the problems belong to the woman.

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  • [–] 40 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    They prey on insecurity. I would have been easy prey for those assholes if I was just a bit dumber.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Yup, or a bit younger. I'm 40, so I was 28 when gamergate kicked off this whole online misogynist grifter ecosystem (which fed into and became a component of what we'd call the alt-right a few years later.)

    By that point I'd already had my first few bad breakups and rejections and had grown up, and had made some good platonic friendships with women, so I wasn't vulnerable to it. But if it'd happened when I was like 23 or 24 and I hadn't had those chances to grow and mature yet? It might've been a lot different.

    It's much easier to blame bad luck and personal failings on others. Growth and maturity takes work.

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