You make a very valid point on the death count. This is information I'd heard and forgotten, and in my haste to find relevant info for the deluge of responses, I forgot that and failed to investigate the info. That's my mistake, and I'm sorry for that. If you have accurate information, I would love to see it. Unfortunately, life has put too many demands on my time lately for me to keep up as well as I would like.
I understand that the lesser evil strategy, as you put it, is particularly unappealing around here, but I think the biggest problem is less so that people adopt the lesser evil strategy and more so that the greater evil keeps winning and remaining viable. Every time Republicans win an election, Democrats use it as an excuse to move farther right to court "centrists", and Republicans move further right as anything Democrats support must be vilified. This is compounded by the fact that Republicans benefit from voter suppression and gerrymandering, so as we grow electorally apathetic, Republicans win more and drag us farther to the right. Democrats basically exist to keep us from sliding back to the left, but they're highly reliant on having the pressure relieved when Republicans start pulling to the right, so I think that mechanism can be overwhelmed.
Aside from that, even if the Democrats were equally bad on Gaza, the US wouldn't have seized Maduro, wouldn't have invaded Iran, wouldn't be potentially preparing to invade Cuba.
As for the Trump ceasefire, from what I'm seeing, it's more slowed down than stopped. I thought trying to slow it down was a shitty option and really just endorsement of the genocide? Or is that only when we try to get Democrats to do it? Frankly, given what we've seen of Trump overall, I think the ceasefire is best ascribed to 2 years of mounting global backlash against Israel, not the guy who'd own the Gaza Trump Tower from the Israeli AI propaganda.
If you have any evidence that attempting to get a ceasefire under Biden was just a stall tactic, I'd love to see it. I've heard the accusation before, but I've never seen it substantiated.
On making the Democrats change, like I said, first step is stop making the Republicans a viable option. If losing an election was enough to change their mind, they'd have freely released the election autopsy report, owned the mistake, and started to pivot, but that didn't happen because it's still just as viable as it was because there's still just as much chance the dumbest third of the country votes right while another third sits out, and as long as Republicans keep winning, Democrats will keep sliding right to "compete". Hell, you yourself even admit that withholding the vote and costing them the election didn't work because they're not pivoting.
It appears you do believe that political power stems from persuading elected politicians to do exactly what is against their own interests - power, influence, donor money, PACs, etc. and only once elected. Wouldn't want to make demands or "persuade" when you have any leverage at all, like your vote.
Persuade was a poor word choice, maybe. Forced. If things like protests didn't have a chance of working, they wouldn't bother brutalizing protesters or getting schools to force protests to shut down. If boycotting Israeli goods was ineffective, Trump wouldn't have tried blocking FEMA funds to states allowing or participating in boycotts. People in here probably also have some great ideas for ways to amp up the pressure.
It is quite clear that you are not us, you are not someone who has done work against the genocide, or even deigned to learn about it, and instead are an advocate for the genocidaires.
Look, I'd love to be more involved. As is, I don't hardly have any time to myself, so god only knows why I spend what meager breaks I can get responding to people who tend to verbally abuse me for not being able to spend more keeping up with shit. But unless someone wants to help subsidize my bills, I'm barely staying afloat. I try to keep up, I try to learn from more than the corporate propaganda, I try to be mindful of where my money goes, and if I'm really lucky, I get to join in on a protest rarely. In a vacuum, yeah, there's so much more I could do, but unfortunately, I need to not starve. Maybe if people like me, who are trying to do what they can but have hardly any time to keep up with this specific thing on top of all the other terrible things happening, were met with less vitriol when we came in here, you guys could persuade some of us. You've been better than a lot of people, but you're still not above calling me an advocate for genocide just because you disagree on how to stop it. Not that my methods are flawed, not that it won't work, that I am actually advocating for genocide, so while I appreciate that you seem to have mostly tried to engage in good faith and I thank you for that, I'm also gonna have to throw in a "fuck you" for that.