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This is the first time I'll ever be looking for a place on my own and I have no idea how to go about this. I'm desperate to move out of my parents house due to them both being very controlling and having ridiculous rules about what I should and shouldn't be doing within their home. I'm working two jobs currently and trying to save as much as possible, but I'm not sure whether I can even afford to rent a studio apartment of my own because I'm still making not very much money. I'm considering renting a room somewhere but I don't even know where to look for roommates and I'm terrified of ending up in an even worse living situation with people I don't like. I've tried to seek advice from my family but none of them have anything helpful to say as they've never gone through this on their own like I'm having to. It also sucks because I currently don't have any credit established so securing a place is going to be much more difficult I think. I don't have any friends either that could help with finding a place or by rooming together so I'm just kinda lost.

If you have any advice or tips on what I should I do please let me know, I am very eager to get out of my parents place, I feel like I'm suffocating here.

Thanks <3

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[-] legaltender@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Yeah I'm in the US. I've never used Craigslist to look for apartments or rooms to rent but I'll give it a shot and see what I can find. I'd like to get a credit card as soon as possible and start working on building credit, but that's also another thing I have no clue how to do.

[-] pierre_delecto@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Getting a credit card shouldn’t be much trouble. As regul said, don’t get something with an annual fee, and pay it off each month. Just use it for some normal day to day stuff because that activity helps build your credit score. Things like buying gas or groceries etc

Worst case scenario you can get a secured card. This is where for example you deposit $500 into an account and the bank gives you a $500 credit limit. You still pay your balance each month but the bank is covered in case you don’t pay. This will build your credit just the same, and can be easier to get if you can’t get a regular card. Try to get a regular card first.

[-] regul@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Walk into the bank where you cash your checks (you have a bank account, right?) and tell them you would like a credit card. They will fall over themselves to give you one. Just be on the lookout for annual fees, make sure you pay it off fully every month, and generally just use it for small purchases.

[-] regul@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

If you do end up applying for an apartment by yourself, be wary of application fees. Definitely make sure to go look at any apartment in person before you apply.

this post was submitted on 26 May 2026
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