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The comfort and confidence that a really good tuck brought me was the first clue that I should pursue bottom surgery.
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Ok so I’m not coming up with this out of nowhere? I feel a bit off balance, I think I was coping with dysphoria by feigning apathy about everything masculine, but it turns out there’s some things I really like and some I really don’t and it’s rocking my world a bitdysphoria
Oof yeah the apathy cope was real. Really I was and still am just scared of surgery and not even sure if it's something I'll be be able to get.I love pants. But nothing ruins the way I feel in them like having a bulge, or feeling any of that stuff in contact with them. The day I managed a really well locked in tape tuck was the first time that I didn't feel deeply uncomfortable in pants. And to top it off I wore leggings which I had only ever worn with a skirt before that. I nearly cried when I looked in the mirror and saw that it looked like I truly had nothing down there.
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I feel you, I also have issues with surgery unrelated to transness so it’s a major mental roadblock.Real as hell! I’m learning I fucking HATE this now that im actually paying attention to how i feel
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The first time I experienced clothing that smoothed that out (cycling bib with padding), I commented on how I liked the feeling of that part being gone to my brother, but neither of us thought it was a weird comment for a cis-guy to make.If I had known nullies were an option back then I'd almost certainly have been like "too bad I'm not trans, so I can't justify such unless I'm lucky and get cancer there and can use that as an excuse to get all the bits removed."
Oh yes I had forgotten that a cycling bib can help create a sort of pseudo tuck sorta. Definitely one of the things I liked about wearing it.